Ann Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I know there are many of us that lost our loved ones at this time of the year. The pain and empty feeling seems to be amplified at this time of the year, when most people are so happy and enjoying the holidays. I can hardly believe that December 15th will mark four years since my Dennis left this world. It is still almost unimaginable that I will never see his face again while on this earth. He was my true soulmate and my heart will always yearn for him. Please say a prayer for me this week, as this time of year is always very hard for me. Quote
Frank Lamb Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 Ann,you always have my prayers.Hoping the good things entering your life help with dealing with the bad.Hang in there my friend. Quote
Kasey Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 (((Ann))), I will do better than saying a prayer......I will say MANY prayers for you. I struggle too, over my mother and dad. That pales in comparison to your grief......as it has been 21 and 22 years that my parents have been gone. Hopefully that expanding family of yours can, in some way, help fill the void. Love, Kasey Quote
Lyn Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I hear you, Ann. I have no Christmas spirit this year. It feels even worse than the last two years since she passed. I hope it gets better as Christmas gets closer. I used to love Christmas. Christmas was always spent with my Mom & Dad and is just not the same without them here. It just reminds me of what I am missing. We always had a fun time at the holidays. It seems like I am just going through the motions. Lyn Quote
Nick C Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 Ann, I'm praying for you. I'm so sorry. Quote
melindasue37 Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I am saying a very special prayer for you, Ann. It really is difficult to get into that holiday spirit when our loved ones are no longer with us. But, please remember how very special you are to all of us here. May God watch over you and bring you a very special Christmas with all your loved ones close by. Warm Hugs, Melinda Quote
Don Wood Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 Prayers from one who definitely understands. I just want this holiday to go on past. We will make it. Don Quote
daggiesmom Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I'm praying that you and your family (especially all the little, new additions) have a peaceful Christmas. Your Dennis would want that for all of you. Joanie ((())) Quote
Anais Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I lost my mother on December 22th and I remember that Dennis passed away in the same period. Thinking of you... Anaïs Quote
ma's kid Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Sweet, gentle Ann...many prayers. Lots of love, Libby Quote
EastCoastLadi Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 (((Ann))), your words hit too close to home for me. i envision myself someday saying those exact sentiments. I will be saying a special prayer for you tonite....... Grace Quote
Maryanne Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 ((((((((((ANN))))))))) Big hugs to you along with prayers. Maryanne Quote
Geri Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Just to let you know that you're in my thoughts. Geri Quote
adela Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Ann, I understand and feel the same. Don wrote exactly what I feel let the holidays past already. Ed is buried in Seattle, I am going to fly out Christmas Day and visit him. In New Mexico on Christmas Eve family members will go to the cemetary and place lumunarias(brown bags filled with sand and a votive candle and the candle is lit). It is such a beautiful sight everyone bundled up and placing their lumunarias on their loved ones grave. With the lighted lumunarias and the love,sadness,laughter and children running around. So on Christmas Day Ed will have his lumunarias. In my mind and in my heart I will light some lumunaris for your Dennis. Feliz Navidad Adela Quote
dchurchi Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 (((Ann))) My dear friend, you will be in mine and Alan's hearts and prayers. Big cyber hug coming your way. You know how much I love you. Quote
Kathleen1 Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Ann, sending prayers for you. You have been so supportive to everyone here. I'm sorry you are having a hard time. This time of year really magnifies those feelings of loss. Hoping you feel some comfort soon. k Quote
SBeth Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Keeping you in my prayers Ann. I hope that the many good things in your life right now will help you thru the days ahead. Love, Quote
DianeR Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Ann, You are in my thoughts and prayers. I can always feel so much love in your post when you talk about Dennis. I know this time of year is so hard. Be kind to yourself. Diane Quote
stand4hope Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 ((((((((((((((ANN))))))))))))) Four years! I bet it still seems like last week. I know it does to me. Merry Christmas, Ann! Love you! Peggy Quote
J.C. Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 Ann, No words, just hugs and prayers. xo Jackie Quote
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