TamHol Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 I keep waiting and watching for some great news from you ... your husband and your family will get threw this one moment at a time. I'm so sorry this is happening to you and your family .... xox Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 I am so very sorry for all that the both of you are going through. (((((((((((Prayers))))))))) Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janehill Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Flowergirlie, So sorry to hear the news. I think you're in a very tough spot. I know your husband has never wanted to know his diagnosis and that even when the naturopath said he probably had a month or so left (thinking he was doing you a favor to save your money for a getaway), it wasn't received well. And I think all that pales in comparison to bringing in hospice (in your husband's eyes). Can you hold off until he asks for the help for pain? Then you can introduce hospice as the answer to the meds management. I know you've been so good to him and have continually honored his wish to remain in the dark, so to speak, and so I suspect you need to keep doing that so long as it is his wish. Again, very tough position you're in and I won't pretend that my mother's awareness and acceptance (even too much so) wasn't a huge burden from my shoulders. I hope when it's my time to leave this earth I will be able to face things as well as she has because I know it will be of invaluable help to my own children who will have enough to focus on and do for me without the added layer of keeping me shielded from the facts surrounding my illness. Much luck to you in the weeks to come. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azkids5 Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 My prayers are with you and the children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEA Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Thinking of you tonight and keeping you and your family in my prayers. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mary colleen Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Please know that so many are thinking of you daily. If you have time, let us know how it is going. mc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dtay Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Thinking and praying for you and your family Dawn x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pammie Posted March 7, 2007 Share Posted March 7, 2007 Flowergirlie and family. Will be praying for you. Wish I could do more. pammie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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