missyk Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Mom's not any better...can't say for sure if she's worse or not myself as I'm a little biased. The hospice nurse told her and Ralph (my sf)today that she's guessing by very early April we'll be at the end. Mom agrees. She's calm (at least when we were talking about it she was) and relaxed. She's still not holding down any food but sips her liquids throughout the day. She told me today that my sister seems to have finally come to terms with the disease and what's going to happen. I'm still not sure if my brother ever will, honestly...but whatever he needs to do for himself is fine. We're starting to prepare...yet Mom's not completely given up. She's going to the dr on Thursday to see if something can be done to help...or at least find out what's actually causing the trouble breathing she's been having. The hospice nurse seems to think that it's tumor growth constricting the airway. I'd agree except just three weeks ago she had a chest xray that was clear and she was having trouble then, too. I guess we're all just along for the ride on this one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 I am so sorry to hear the news I know it is difficult, but take time out to take care of yourself and your cute lil critter. Sending strong vibes your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiesia Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Did they check whether there is a tumor/enlarged lymph nodes in the mediastinum ? Those can constrict trachea and the main bronchus. Also, a tumor might be inside the airway. I am not sure that that would show up on an x-ray. At the end my father could not breath. I still can not believe that he is gone: his scans showed tumors in the lungs but there was plenty of lungs left to breath. I do believe that there was an obstruction in some airway that they did not find. But who knows...it is a terrible disease and maybe his shortness of breath was caused by something we just could not eaily see. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 (((((Missy)))))) You know we're here for you. I gotta tell you, dear, and I'm sure you know this... no matter how prepared you think you might be, it's still just plain hard. When it feels too hard we're here to lean on, ok? Let your Mama know we're all praying and sending so much love. love, Val Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Oh Missy, I am so sorry. Please know you have my prayers. God bless, Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wendyr Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Missy, I am so sad reading this. Sending prayers for peace & strength. Good Luck & God Bless wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 I'm sorry to hear this. But I am impressed with the grace your mom is exhibiting...pretty impressive! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daddyslittlegirl Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Missy, I'm so sorry to read this. I'm praying for you and your family. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Prayers for your mother, you and your family. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Many prayers for your family during this tough time. Your mom sounds like such a fantastic, strong lady Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mendy Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Missy, This is very sad news. I hope the doctors can give her some relief for her breathing. What a time for you. You know we are all here for you. Mendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hockeyma Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Missy, Sorry things aren't any better and progressing. We are hoping for the best for you and your family, Heather Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Val is right, you can't prepare, but you can make sure all things you wanna say are said, which I'm sure you have. In a way, we are blessed that we get the chance to do that. Hugs to you and lots of love to Sue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystleshoe Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 oh missy I am so sorry to hear your news. Lori and Val are right. Ther is no way to ever prepare for it. I thought that I had and when my mom passed away but I was not ready for the pain. All you can do is spend as much time with her as you can and have all the conversations that you have been putting off and most of all let her know how important she is too you. I put off a lot of conversations with my mom because I was afraid she would be sad and I didnt want her to think about dying(like she wasn't anyway. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Oh, Missy..really sad to read this. Take care and know that we are here. Prayers for you and your family and especially for your mom. Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littlegirl Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 So sorry to hear this Missy. Hope your mom can find relief and that you still have some quality time left. Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathleen1 Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Missy, I am so sad to hear your news. Your Mom is such a strong lady. I am sending prayers your way. Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Sending prayers your way. I know this can't be easy, but as you do everything you can to help your mom during the next few weeks, I think everyone on this board will do everything we can to help you. God Bless.--Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 I am very sorry for what you are all going through. Hopefully you will get some answers to help make her breathing more comfortable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Missy, Sorry to hear this news. I hope your Mom's breathing issues can be eased and she can be more comfortable. Please take care of yourself and the wee one. Welthy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzie Q Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 So saddened to hear this, Missy. Hopefully, a plan can be reached for easier breathing for your dear mom. O2 helped my mom, if for no other reason than her knowledge that regardless of how she could breathe, at least her body was still getting oxygen to the cells. Prayers and good thoughts for what you are all going through. ~Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TamHol Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Good luck to you ........ here's hoping it's just a bad week for her! Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Missy, Please know I am praying for you and your family. Daddy had SOB the last 2 weeks of his life which they couldn't attribute to cancer spread... his lungs looked good... Am thinking that sometimes its just damage from all the Chemo.... I pray for peace for you all. Love, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEA Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Missy..thinking of you tonight and keeping you and your Mom in my prayers. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candys Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Missy, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts are with you and your family. Candy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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