overtherainbow Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Just got the horrible news yesterday that dad has stage IV NSCLC that spread before they were able to catch it. He has never smoked a day in his life. Prognosis isn't great but he is exploring aggressive chemotherapy options and we're all holding out hope for a miracle. I am 26 and married and have a 24-year old sister and a 19-year old brother who just started college. Mom and Dad will celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary this June. This is a huge blow... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhutch1366 Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 So sorry to hear, but glad you found us. All is not lost. Read profiles We're here for you. XOXOX MaryAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 I am so sorry about your dad's diagnosis. Please know you have come to a wonderful place full of support. Keep us posted. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelley (MLC) Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Stage IV isn't necessarily as hopeless as you are thinking right now....I know because I was where you are about 2 months ago. There are many wonderful people on this site that have lived with lung cancer for much longer than they, and in many cases, the Dr.s thought they would. Read as much as you can on this site. The very special members here can be so helpful and supportive. I wish you and your family the best and I am so sorry that you need to be with us. Shelley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
needhope Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 NSCLC 4 1/2 mos. ago so I know how frightened and devastated you must be. However, you have found a great support group here. I pray that your Dad gets a plan of action soon and responds well to treatment. Sincerely, Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Welcome here! Sorry about your dad. My wife also was a nonsmoker who had Stage IV nonsmall cell lung cancer at diagnosis. Her prognosis (statistics only) was 9 months. She lived a full 4 years and had a productive life. So hang in there. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 Welcome and sorry to hear about your dad. I'm 2 months away from 5 (see profile) years @ Stage IV (never smoked / prognoses 2 years) so there is always hope. It's a lot to take in and can be overwhelming in the beginning. Research as much as you can and be pro-active. Stay positive and take it one day at a time and one step at a time. Focus on living not dying. Not always fun or easy but is doable. Also helps to get into a support group to talk to people who have been there done that. Stay with us lots of support, caring and sharing here. Hope this helps. Prayers for the best. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted March 20, 2007 Share Posted March 20, 2007 I am very sorry about your father's diagnosis. Keep us posted as his treatment progresses. As others have said, lots of options are available. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernrol Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Sorry to hear about your dad. There are many of us here that are stage IV and are having good results with our treatment. You do not have to accept the doctor’s prognosis. Get aggressive treatment and you can live with this disease. Stay positive, Ernie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asmakis Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 Hi there and welcome to this site. I just wanted to let you know that I can relate with what you are feeling. Please know that we are here for you. -Amanda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candys Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 I'm sorry to hear about your father's cancer. Hang in there and get all the information you can. This site is a wonderful place for those in need! Candy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
overtherainbow Posted March 21, 2007 Author Share Posted March 21, 2007 Thank you all for your wonderful words of support! This group has already provided so much comfort and information. It's hard getting news like this but your stories have inspired me. Dad had a very encouraging consult with his oncologist yesterday. They consider this very treatable and will start the first round of chemo tomorrow. We're all trying to keep up each other's spirits as this journey begins... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted March 21, 2007 Share Posted March 21, 2007 welcome. I hope your dad does well with the treatment. don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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