Guest nhnikki Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 I can't believe its been a month. Why does it feel like yesterday? It's all so unbelievable to us. My Mom, brother and sister all feel the same way. Like, did it really happen? Is this just a dream? When does reality set in? Daddy, I love and miss you but know that you are much happier in heaven. I know I will see you again someday. Praise the lord! Nicole Quote
Nick C Posted April 9, 2007 Posted April 9, 2007 Nicole, I felt like that first month was the longest month of my life, and yet I could think back as if it just happened. I was in a haze for 2 months solid, only now am I beginning to feel like I am taking part in reality. Give yourself time and patience...it is very soon. You do not have to get "back to normal" on anyones timetable but yours. Quote
Maryanne Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 Thinking of you Nicole. I am so sorry for all the pain you are feeling. It will get better in time, I know that is hard to believe but it will. Until that healing time please know that so many of us have walked in your shoes and we know how you feel. I am sorry for your pain. Maryanne Quote
Mefoster Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 Hi Nicole. Just wanted to let you know, today I received the book I ordered per your suggestion. (90 Days In Heaven). I've read to chapter 4 already. It is making me feel a little better. I even think I was able to take a short nap afterward. I will have this next to my bed at night to read whenever I am having trouble getting to sleep. Just to think that if your dad and my husband had to leave us, what a wonderful place this must be. Thanks Quote
Sonia Owen Posted April 11, 2007 Posted April 11, 2007 I have just ordered the book 90 minutes in heaven from my local library.Someone is reading it at the moment. I want to read it and my Mum certainly does, I am sure it will help her, to know that my Dad is in a beautiful place. Sonia UK Quote
Flowergirlie Posted April 12, 2007 Posted April 12, 2007 I keep thinking that too...Is this really happening? I am sorry again for your loss. I hope you are trying to enjoy special memories to get you through the toughest times. Hugs to you and family! Flowergirlie Quote
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