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Flowergirlie

Happy Birthday Hunnybear!

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Today would be his 42nd birthday. It is such a shame that he be taken so young and so quickly and we are all here missing him. It is yet another reminder of how nothing will ever be the same again. Our birthdays were super celebrations and nothing we took lightly. I feel so empty without him here. We have had two birthdays in the house since he passed already and then my birthday will come and go soon too and it will not even be worth celebrating. We always loved slaving over a yummy dinner and homemade cake while the other lazily watched the process, spoiled as should be.

I can't figure out why life has to be so hard all the time! My heart just feels so tragically and irreparably broken.

The boys and I are going to have a cake in his honor anyway. Maybe that will help soften the sorrow and grief some.

Flowergirlie

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maybe it wouild also help to sing Happy birthday under the stars tonite?? Justt a thought. try to get a little enjoyment. I know how hard it is especially so close to Fathers day, Hope you have a little Peace today.

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(((Melinda))))

you know I'm here for you. just last month the girls and I had a "little party" for Carltons' birthday, with all his favorites. I too still ask why? but I have to accept that that question will probably never get answered.

Grace

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Hey Melinda, It is really really hard - I know - Ger's birthday was a couple of weeks after he died - Good Friday - now what is so good about that. Hang in there and stay tough. It is really hard but you are a strong person. Hope your kids are doing well,

take care and keep in touch. Heather

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I cannot relate so I wont write anything besides

I think of you and your boys often and hope

this new journey in life will get easier for you.

Dar

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I think it is great that you guys marked the occasion. As hard as that is, I think trying to ignore it is harder. Tomorrow is Mom's birthday. As kids we always did a movie and dinner out, so the kids, my brother, DH and I are going to a movie in her honor. I don't know if I'm brave enough to do a cake.

Your instincts are good ones. Your kids are lucky to have you there, helping them through this time.

Lots of love, rainbows, and prayers going out to you.

:) Kelly

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