Sheri Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Those are the hardest words I've ever written. We are in the hospital, found out the cancer is all throughout his lungs and he has many pulmonary embolisms. He never expressed a desire to die at home so we aren't pushing to get him home. Saturday night he ws in obvious distress and while his wife worked I convinced to go to the hospital when she got home. She got home at 6:30 PM but he asked for us to wait until 8:30 PM. Around 9:0O, I pulled my car up to hisside door that only had two steps he would have to go down in his weakened state. When we were about to leave he told me he was going out the front door, a door we rarely use. I think he knew he wouldn't be coming back. We're at a small local hospital, his choice and I'm sitting next to listening to him gasp for breath and my heart is jut breaking. If anyone has any sugestions what I should be doing right now, please let me know. He could go anytime now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Listen carefully to anything he says as it may not make sense immediately, but messages are everywhere right now as the angels surround you both. I recommend the book Final Gifts if you can get it. Many hugs and prayers for you right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Oh (((Sheri))), I am just brokenhearted for you. You will know all the right things to do because you are his daughter. I did many of the things Katie mentioned and I also remember telling my dad that he would be feeling better very soon. And he was............in God's glory!!!! Many prayers are being offered as I type this for you. Gosh, I am sorry. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Sending prayers for all of you, Sheri. My heart goes out to you. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christine Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Sheri, I am so sorry you are going through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bev'sSister Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Sherri I am so sad for you. I know your Dad is glad you are there with him. I am glad you are there with him also. I will be praying for you and your family. Take care of yourself, Love, Bobby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Just sit and soak him in, Sheri... And talk to him, and love him in all the little ways you can right now. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Sheri I have no words, just many, many prayers. I am so sorry.. Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laban Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Prayers for your Dad to go in peace. Prayers for you and the family for strength. Talk to him, he hears you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Sheri, I can only offer my prayers. don m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teriw Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Sheri, I'm so sorry. As others have said, just keep talking to him. Let him know how special he is, remind him of important memories, hold his hand, etc. And listen to him too. Sometimes Bill would say things that didn't make sense, but if we asked more questions, we usually could see where he was going with it. Allow him to say what he wants. Just be there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 Sheri- I am so sorry. I know how hard you've tried to do everything you could to help your dad beat this monster. You've been the best daughter and an amazing advocate. You've done everything you could for him. I hope you get some special moments together before he leaves you. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted August 8, 2007 Share Posted August 8, 2007 My prayers are with you and your family. Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted August 9, 2007 Share Posted August 9, 2007 ((Sheri)), Hugs, prayers, and wishes for peace for your Dad and whole family. Welthy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinC1973 Posted August 9, 2007 Share Posted August 9, 2007 Sheri, just hold him, talk to him, love him. My prayers are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaffie Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 I'm so sorry... I agree with the rest, having been in your shoes I say hold his hand, let him know you love him, listen to what he has to say, you will cherish these words. I pray for a peaceful passing for him kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dscherer Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 (((SHERI))) My heart just goes out to you and wish I could say something to ease your pain. Tell him exactly how you feel, don't leave anything unsaid!!! SAy it all! Your love shines through you posts. You are a true advocate and an amazing daughter! Your family is in my prayers, Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 PRayers andTears and stength tonite for you and FAmily Sheri... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 I am so very, very sorry. Prayers. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dtay Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 Thinking of you and your family Sheri Dawn x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted August 10, 2007 Share Posted August 10, 2007 I told mom I loved her, and I'd be OK. I told her she'd be OK and she did a great job, but she can go whenever she wants to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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