ChristineT Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 My dad passed away on Tuesday. It wasn't even 2 months after his diagnosis. You can read the story in my other posts. Basically, the pnuemonia turned into sepsis and he went into septic shock. His kidneys failed and his heart gave out. This is so hard. He never even had the chance to fight. He had such a good attitude. I just feel so defeated. Not to mention sad, mad, etc. This just really stinks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 Christine, I am so, so sorry. I would be so very angry too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 (((Christine))), I am so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers will be with your family during this painfully, difficult time. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tkelley Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 So sorry.....hugs and prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 So sorry my prayers are with you and family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 I'm so sorry. May your dad rest in peace. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 Christine, I'm so sorry that your Dad's fight ended so quickly. Many hugs and prayers sent for your loss. May God's peace be with you. Welthy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 Prayers Hugs condolences and Love for everyone RIght now. So sorry to hear this news. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lc46 Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 I'm so sorry. Wishing you much strength in the days to come. Dar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristineT Posted October 12, 2007 Author Share Posted October 12, 2007 Thank you ALL for your thoughts and prayers. They mean SO much to me and my family. We are coping, I guess it's never easy. I just can't help but feel like I let dad down. I found his drs, went to his appts, helped guied his treatment and it didn't even matter. I know, I don't want to hear 'you did what you thought was best' and I am not looking for people to feel sorry for me. I just wanted him to have a chance to fight this. God bless all of you living with this horrible disease. I pray you all conquer it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzie Q Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 Christine, You DID give him the best chance to fight this, and he gave it everything he had. But it was not in your control, or your dad's control. So hard to accept this, as we all would like to believe that we can actually save someone...it just doesn't always work that way. Please accept my deepest sympathies. hugs, Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 My heartfelt sympathy to your family, Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted October 12, 2007 Share Posted October 12, 2007 I'm so sorry for your loss. Sorry that your dad didn't have a chance to give it a real fight. I know how shocked you must be. As for the anger and the feelings of failure, those are part of the grieving process. You didn't let your dad down. It was just his time and as bad as it seems now maybe he was spared a lot more suffering. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladybug Posted October 13, 2007 Share Posted October 13, 2007 I am so so sorry. Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted October 13, 2007 Share Posted October 13, 2007 I am so sorry for your loss. I am sorry you did not have more time with him. My sympathy. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted October 13, 2007 Share Posted October 13, 2007 Christine, Very sorry for your loss. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teriw Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Christine, I'm so sorry to hear the news of your dad. I can certainly understand why it's so difficult to feel like he didn't get to fight. You were there for him, and he knew that and still does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Christine, I am so sorry. It wasn't long enough. Not fair. We'll be here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christine Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Christine, I am so very sorry for the loss of your father. Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Christine, I'm so sorry for your loss...so quickly. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Christine, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laban Posted October 14, 2007 Share Posted October 14, 2007 Christine, God bless you and your family during this difficult time. Please accept my most sincere condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heather_T Posted October 15, 2007 Share Posted October 15, 2007 So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 I am so sorry about your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MomsGirl Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 It does utterly stink. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad, bless his soul... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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