Steph74 Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 It's as I suspected, the onc said he would recommend stopping treatment. She's had 4 chemos and he said that her cancer has built up a resistance to it. He said he didn't think her body could take much more - she's gone from 160 lbs to 103 lbs and is in a lot of pain. He said the brain and lungs are stable, but the liver cancer is too aggressive, and that's the worst place for it. My mom was crying, saying she didn't want to die, she didn't want to give up - it was horrible. I never thought I could feel as hopeless as I did that initial day when we sat in his office and got the diagnosis - this topped it. He did say that there is one more option but it was unlikely to stabilize the disease. He wants to take it week by week and see how she physically is doing. So - here it is the fifth chemo - after carbo/taxol, tarceva, alimta, and gemzar - it's vinorelbine (navelbine). It's our last hope. I feel so awful for my mom - she is a shadow of the woman she was. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leela Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Steph, I'm so sorry to hear this. I've been watching for your post. I agree with Katie - ask about cyberknife. Your mom still wants to fight - so that's a great start. I hope the new treatment will bring relief. I will keep you both in my prayers. Hugs, Lisa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lc46 Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Steph-I just Pm'd you.... Dar Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Steph I am so sorry to read this latest development. I definitely agree with Katie about the cyberknife. Sending lots of prayers for you both Christine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiredmom959 Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 So sorry to hear this news, how difficult that visit must have been for your mom and you. Maybe it would be a good idea at this point to seek a second opinion on the liver cancer? Even if you really like the onc you're with now, it couldn't hurt? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 I am sorry to hear this, Stephanie. I have no suggestions other than to get another expert opinion and search out whatever you can find where the liver is concerned. Mom has been quite the warrior........I am offering prayers she is afforded the opportunity to keep going with this new tx. You and mom are in my thoughts and prayers too. Best of luck as you continue traveling this bumpy road. Kasey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelley (MLC) Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Stephanie, I am so sorry to read your news. Please look into a second opinion as far as your mom's liver and chemo options. As long as everyone wants to keep fighting, I say give it everything you have. My prayers go out to your mom and family. Shelley Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Steph, I'm so sorry to hear about the progression. Have hope. Navelbine was a very effective agent for my husband way down the line too. It chased back many of his tumors and he was on it for 19 weeks. It's pretty gentle on the system. Hang in there and many hugs, Welthy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Please know that I am praying for your mother. Carol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvmydad Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 (((Steph))) Prayers and hugs for both you and your mom. She is a fighter and not ready to give up. I pray that this new treatment will work wonders. Keep us all posted and know that you are both in our prayers daily. Blessings, Teresa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leslie Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Stephanie-- I am really sorry to hear that you are at this point. I have followed you and your mom for quite some time. You both have been so strong and so brave for all of these months. I am sending you all of my strength for the coming days. My thoughts are with you and your mom. Best, Leslie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinC1973 Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Stephanie: I am just so very very sorry. I have been away for awhile but I wanted to let you know you and your mom are in my thoughts and prayers. YOUR MOM IS A FIGHTER. Look at all she has done already! There is no reason why she can't take it a step further and prove the doctors wrong. I know how hard this is. Never give up hope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesLife Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 Many prayers for you and your mom during this difficult time. I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through. Praying that Navelbine is successful. Linda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steph74 Posted January 18, 2008 Author Share Posted January 18, 2008 Thank you for all your replies and well wishes - I will definitely take Katie's advice and talk to the doctor about the cyberknife possibility. I've been trying to convince my mom about the second opinion as well - this doctor is one of the top two lung cancer oncologists Chicago - I want to see the other! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marci Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Stephanie, My mom had Navelbine too with good results. Will pray for the Navelbine to work and will pray for a miracle. Marci Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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