Connie24 Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 I have just joined today. My mom died of lung cancer 1 year ago - Feb. 5. She was only 57 year's old. It has not been easy for me. I couldn't picture my life without her and now she is gone. She was my best friend. We talked at least 3 times a day and saw each other every week. I still reach for the phone to call her and I get so angry when I can't hear her voice. Does it get any easier? I still wake up every morning thinking that it was just a bad dream. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janet B Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Connie - I lost my mother to cancer 14 years ago on Feb. 5, she was 61. It does get easier - I promise. That first year is a fog - I remember putting the kids on the bus and then getting them off hours later and having done NOTHING in between. I too used to pick up the phone and then remember she wasn't there. But in time you will find yourself smiling at memories instead of getting teary over them, you will find yourself talking out loud to her and laughing or moments will come that you just know she is there with you and that thought will make you happy not sad. Not a day goes by that I don't think of my mom - but now those thoughts are with smiles instead of tears. It will come - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueeye Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Welcome Connie24. I'm sorry but glad that you found us. My Mom died just a few months ago so I have no advice to offer other than this board is a great place full of caring and understanding people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Connie...believe me...I know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Welcome Connie, I hope we can give you some comfort!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teriw Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 Hi Connie, Welcome to the site. I'm so sorry for your loss. You will find many people here who know what you're going through. Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystleshoe Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 Hi Connie I am sorry that you have the reason to be here but glad you found us. My Mom was stolen by lung cancer 1 year and 1 month ago and I am not used to her not being here. i miss her voice and the sight of her face and her cards in the mail and I even miss her complaining about the weather. The only advice I can give you is to take it one day at a time. As for it getting easier I think that maybe it just becomes doable and not easier. We understand and are here for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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