Liza 0 Posted May 24, 2008 Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 hi, i started posting in 'intoduce yourself' march 22 this year when i first found out my father had lung cancer (advanced, final stage), the anguish for my father and us his family is indescribable it did comfort me to talk about it here in LCSC and know that others understand what i go through i guess i should now move here, in 'grieving' my father died may 19 and we buried him today may 24 he was in severe pain (pain meds did not work) in the weeks before he died, it killed me and my family to see him endure it and there was nothing we could do it doesn't console me that he is not suffering anymore because we lost him, for good, he was taken from us unfairly while there were still many things we look forward to, to share, to make up for, to talk about, or just spend time together these make it unbearable to accept the loss i feel lost without my father, i miss him so much -- liza Quote Link to post Share on other sites
KatieB 348 Posted May 24, 2008 Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 Liza, I'm so sorry you lost your dad...I do know what losing a dad to LC feels like and I hear you loud and clear. It's not fair, there's no consolation...at least not right now as your loss is so early yet and your pain is right at the surface. Just know that we "get it" and we are here for you. You will feel so many things in this process we call grief- and I hope that one day, the memories you shared with your father will bring you some comfort and peace. (((hug))) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
shineladysue 0 Posted May 24, 2008 Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 (((Liza))), I posted in the other thread, but I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. This is so hard. Feel free to come here and share with us. So many of us understand how it feels to lose someone you love. Hugs, Sue Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RandyW 32 Posted May 24, 2008 Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 My condolences and thoughts and prayers!!! I am so sorry to hear this. We are here when you need us so... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Maryanne 0 Posted May 26, 2008 Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 My condolences goes out to you and your family. I know how it feels to lose a dad. I am so sorry for your pain. Think of you, Maryabbe Quote Link to post Share on other sites
blueeye 0 Posted May 27, 2008 Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 Liza, I am also very sorry for your loss. I have lost both of my parents. Hang in there and come here....we "get" it. Leslie Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nick C 1 Posted May 28, 2008 Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 Liza, I am so sorry. I do understand your hurt. I get it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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