tkelley Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 Well after 6 long years of battling cancer, my dad passed away yesterday afternoon. Unbelievably, it was shortly after receiving a chemo treatment. He had just seen his doctor and everything seemed ok. They gave him his treatment and he went home with my mom. A little while later he was sitting at the kitchen table about to eat and my mom turned around and he was slumped over. I am so thankful that it was not long and drawn out and he was not in pain. His greatest fear was dying in a hospital or from a heart attack. IF there is anyting that is helping me get through this, it is that. The sad part is that my brother was coming from New York this weekend with his kids so that we could have a Father's Day with all of us together. Needless to say, my brother is feeling quite angry right now. For me, this is just surreal. There were so many times that we thought he wouldn't make it. I never thought he would meet my daughter and she is almost 2. One of the hardest things was telling my six year old son this morning. He is handling it well as I knew he would. Kids are so resilient. We will be traveling back to New York for his funeral and burial. I want to thank everyone here for all of their love and support over the last four years. I will try to check in when I can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 tKelly, My condolences to you and your family. Your father's picture is a familiar one to me having seen it many times as I wandered around the boards. Do what you need to do and come back anty time you need support from our LCSC family. Judy in Key West Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. My condolences to you and your family. dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry's Wife Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 My deepest condolences to you and your family. Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lc46 Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. He fought hard and I am glad he didn't suffer in the end. May you and your family find the comfort you need in the days to come. Dar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 Oh Sweetie, I am so very sorry to see your dad is gone. He honestly fought long and very hard as did you and your family. My sincere condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesLife Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 I am so sorry - please accept my sincere sympathy on the loss of your wonderful dad. Wishing you peace and strength for the upcoming days. Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flyman35 Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 I am so sorry to hear this news. My sincere sympathies and condolences to you and your family. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 I'm so sorry. I don't seem to have any words, so just know that you are in my heart. Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 Oh ((((Tammy)))), I am so very sorry. Your Dad fought this battle with such courage. This news just breaks my heart. Please give my condolences to the famly and know that you and yours will be in my thoughts and prayers in the days ahead. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 Tammy, I'm just so sorry. I know he was a special, special man. And I also know that you cared for him incredibly well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 Tammy, please accept my condolences for your loss. don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leela Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 I'm so sorry Tammy. Hugs, Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shellit74 Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 Tammy, I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Shelli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelley (MLC) Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 Tammy, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I can tell that he was a very special person and there are no words that can possibly help. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Shelley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieB Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 OMG- I'm so sad and sorry to read this. My heart and prayers for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 (((Tammy))) I'm so shocked to read this. Please know you have my deepest sympathies. He was a great Dad and YOU are a wonderful daughter. God has blessed you with a lifetime of memories. Many hugs, Welthy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted June 12, 2008 Share Posted June 12, 2008 I am so sorry. We'll be here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueeye Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 I am so sorry for your loss. Leslie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted June 15, 2008 Share Posted June 15, 2008 Sending love and prayers your way. I am so very sorry for your loss. Lillian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaroleHammett Posted June 15, 2008 Share Posted June 15, 2008 My condolences to you and your family. I can't imagine how hard this will be for you. I am also glad that he was able to go so quickly and painlessly--too often not the case with LC. Carole Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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