dchurchi Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Alan took a turn for the worse on Sunday. He is now in the hospital and not doing very well. My goal is to get hospice set up asap and get him home for the duration. His lungs and heart are starting to fail. Alan is on morphine so he is comfortable, just very weak. Alan has lost even more weight and everyone is now concentrating on keeping him comfortable. I will be meeting with his oncologist later today to get all the details for hospice set up. I went to work today and obtained the necessary paper work so I can take family leave. I have paid vacation now until July 9th when family leave will then begin. I have a wonderful support group, not only with friends and family, but also the hospital Alan is treated at. Please pray that if this is the journey to the end that God is gentle and takes Alan in his arms with little or no suffering. Thanks for all your constant support Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 So very sorry to read this, you both are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry's Wife Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Debbie, I am so sorry to hear this. You and Alan are in my prayers. Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Lots of prayers for you and Alan. Your love will give you strength you need. My heart goes out to you. Peace be with you at this time Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bev'sSister Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Debbi, I am so sorry. This is truly the most difficult time of all. It is so hard to not be able to make things better. I know Alan is so happy you are there with him. You have been a wonderful wife and friend to him. I will continue to pray that his journey is peaceful and pain free. We love y'all, Bobby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mary colleen Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 What a graceful prayer you are asking of us. You have mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesLife Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 (((Debbie))) - I will pray for all the things you ask. I wish you peace and strength during this time. Hugs, Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Oh Debbie... I'm so sorry. I am praying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janet B Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 I will be praying for you both to have peace and strength Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muriel Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 Oh Debbie, I'm so sorry. You and Alan certainly have my prayers. Muriel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted June 24, 2008 Share Posted June 24, 2008 (((Debbie & Alan))), You have my prayers and may God be with you and your family during this time. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 my thoughts and prayers for both of you tonite Deb I am so sorry to read this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Sorry to hear Alan is not doing well prayers for both of you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaroleHammett Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie: I am so sorry you and Alan are having to go through this. May your remaining time with him be full of love and good memories. Carole Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.--the late, great George Carlin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, Praying as you requested. I know it is hard to take the next steps...after having fought for so long. But comfort is the name of the game at this point. At a loss for words.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastCoastLadi Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, I am so very sorry to hear about Alan. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with the both of you... Grace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie and Alan, Prayers and good thoughts continue. May God hold you both in his arms. I hope that hospice will keep Alan comfortable. You have both fought so very hard. I'm sorry Debbie and so sad. Hugs, Debi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lc46 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Oh Debbie-I am so sorry. I so hate this disease. I am wishing you and Alan comfort in the days ahead. May he leave this world when he is ready in peace. Thinking about you Dar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Dear Debbie, This post makes me very sad. Alan has fought a valiant fight. May his time remaining be filled with good memories and some laughs. I will pray for comfort and peace. Debbie be good to yourself during this time. Keep us posted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flyman35 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie I am so sorry that Alan has taken a turn for the worse. I will be praying that God is gentle to you both. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruce u Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 So sorry Debbie. You and Alan are in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chloesmom Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, I am very sorry to hear this. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 (((Deb)))) I am so sorry. You have my prayers. I wish you both peace and strength. PLEASE know how much we all care. Hugs - Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laban Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie and Alan I hate that this time has come for you and Alan. I pray that Hospice will keep him comfortable and help you get through these times. God bless you both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 I am so sorry, Debbie. You and Alan are in my continued prayers. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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