dchurchi Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 We met with Alan's oncologist last night and the news could not have been worse. Alan has 2 very large tumors in his right lung. One has wrapped around the blood vessles and the treachea. The second is in the root of the lung and causing most of his pain. He now has multiple smaller tumors in his left lung, and the last issue is that his heart is functioning at only 35%. Alan is in alot of pain now, we hope to have him out of the hospital today so hospice can provide the necessary comfort. I have called Alan's family so they can come see him if they choose to do so. His brothers will be here on Saturday. His daughter was due to be here over 4th of July, but there is a good chance that will not be soon enough. She is in Chicago right now training for a new job. I am leaning on my friends, who have all along said they would be there for me, and God Bless them they are all coming through. I want to thank everyone on this board for their support and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cat127 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 I'm so sorry the report was so bad. I'm glad your friends are there for you as they promised they would be. We are all here for you too. Many prayers sent your way! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, I am so very sorry that Alan's condition has declined so much. I am keeping you both in my prayers. God Bless, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JB Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Very sorry to hear this Debbie. Continued prayers for you both...Wishing you strength and comfort during this difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flyman35 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Continued prayers for strength and mercy. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelley (MLC) Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 I am so sorry to hear your news about Alan. Lean on your wonderful friends and count on hospice to help make Alan as comfortable as possible. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Shelley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
P.S. I Love You Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, I am saddened to read this. I hope hospice will ease Alan's pain quickly. Sorry that you both have to go through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 always have time for a prayer For You and Alan for comfort and strength and positive vibes. Deb I know this is so very ahrd and Hope you lean on everyone you can for support right now! I wish i had the magic powers but i always have ears to listen with and big soft shoulders to cry on Deb! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 (((Debbie & Alan))), I am heartbroken over this news. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Hope hospice can help with Alan's pain and give you support too. God Bless. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bev'sSister Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbi, I wish I could be there to give you a big hug. This is such a difficult time. I am glad you will have family there soon and such wonderful friends. Thank you for updating us and know that we are praying for Alan to be pain free. Love, Bobby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lc46 Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie-I am so sorry... Dar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbb Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, I am so sad to read this news. Hospice is going to be a true God-send for easing his pain. My heart is with you both. Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheri Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, I'm so sorry Alan is in pain. This truly must be heartbreaking for you. Let's just hope this is just another curve in the road. You and Alan have always been a true inspiration to me and Alan portrays as a true survivor. I hope both of your upcoming days get better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruce u Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie I am so sorry. I was really hoping that Alan's condition would improve that he was not in pain. I know that is a big concern of you. Thinking of you and Alan from up north. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, You and Alan will remain in my prayers. Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, I am truly sorry you and Alan have to go through this. My hope is that hospice will make Alan comfortable so the two of you can have still have some quality time together. Judy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Continued prayers for Alan and yourself and all family. So good to hear you have others to lean on. Peace be with you at this difficult time. Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastCoastLadi Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 Debbie, my heart is broken to hear about Alan, I know the most important thing right now is to get his pain under control. Please, I know in the midst of all of this, to try the best to take care of yourself. I know you're probably on autopilot right now and that is ok, let others, if they can help. please know you can PM me at any time. my prayers for Alan and you... Grace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 (((Deb))) I am so sorry Deb that Alan continues to go downhill. I am continuing to pray that you and Alan can find peace and comfort during this time. You know you have all of us to lean on, too. (((Deb))) Hugs - Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teriw Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 ((((Deb & Alan)))) Just saw this latest update -- prayers for you both that hospice is set up quickly and that family can arrive to be with you both. Lean on that support system - they want you to. I'm so sorry. Much love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesLife Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 Debbie & Alan - I am so very sorry to read this latest news. I pray that they can get hospice set up quickly and alleviate his pain - it is so hard to watch those we love in pain and my heart absolutely aches for you. I hope the family gets there to spend some time with Alan and to help support you. Again, I am so sorry. Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janet B Posted June 26, 2008 Share Posted June 26, 2008 I am saying prayers for you both - for peace and strength. Janet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEA Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 Keeping you both in thought and prayer. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 Debbie, You and Alan are in my thoughts and prayers, Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaroleHammett Posted June 27, 2008 Share Posted June 27, 2008 Deb: I'm so sorry Alan's in so much pain, but that is a primary specialty of the hospice team so hopefully it will be under control quickly. I am so glad you have a strong support system. That will make all the difference in the world. Thanks for keeping us up to date, and please don't forget to take care of yourself as well as Alan. Carole Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.--the late, great George Carlin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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