lenr8 Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 I wanted to let everyone know that Lenny is at peace now. He passed away at around 7:00 p.m. this evening at the hospital. He had been in the hospital for over 2 weeks. He initially went in for pnuemonia but then other things developed. He was really suffering towards the end today. He was fighting for every breath. I went in and told him that it was okay to let go and then he did. He fought this disease with everything that he had. He put up a good fight. He was only 32 years old. This is so not fair. I did not want to leave him at the hospital but I had to. I am so overwhelmed with grief and I think that I am still in shock. I have to be strong though for our two children ages 2 and 7. All I know is that he got a great deal of support from all of you. He had wanted me to tell all of you today that he was in the hospital but fighting like Hell...but he was gone before I had a chance to tell you. Thank you everyone for all of your support that you gave to my husband. I know that you all helped him deal with this so much better. Lori Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 I am so saddened to learn that Lennie lost his fight. My prayers are with you and your family. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirleyb Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am so sorry that Lenny did not win this fight. It is so not fair. Stay in touch with us. I have found this board and those on here to be the most helpful in dealing with all the pain and grief that goes with losing those we love so much. May God watch over you and give you peace. Know that Lenny is not suffering any longer. I am so so sorry. Shirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 I am so sorry for your loss. Lenny's dad also left a post in the caregiver forum. I wish you strength to get through the time ahead of you. Please know how much we thought of Lenny. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debi Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I hope that you somehow find some comfort in our messages of sympathy. It is so hard to try to find some reason in why this happens, its just not right. My thoughts are with you and your two little boys... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluebayou Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 So very very sorry Lori. God Bless u and yours Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Cheryl- Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am so sorry. Lenny fought this disease with everything he had, he did so for the love of his family. He loved you and your sons so much. I for one am honored that Lenny allowed us to have insight into those feelings that he shared for you and the boys in his posts. His sons will know him, you will not let them forget their father. I bet Lenny won't let them forget either. God Bless you and your family. WE will all miss him! Cheryl and Jack Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karen335 Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am so sorry for the loss of Lenny. He will be greatly missed. Special prayers for you and your two little boys... My condolences to you and your family... God's Blessing to all of us Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea B. Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 I am so very sorry. I am truly saddened by your loss. Life seems so unfair. I am praying for you and your two sons. I hope you have a good support system, so you don't have to always be strong. I am so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eileen Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori I am so very sorry for your loss-----although death at any age is heartbreaking, it is horrible when it happens to someone so young with young children---please stay on this board for comfort and feel free to vent anytime ---we are not only here to support cancer patients but to also help caregivers and people that are grieving my deepest sympathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am shocked and saddened to read your post this morning. Wish I could help you in some way. My prayers are with you all. Peg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am just beside myself with sadness. I simply have no words to say how sorry I am. I...I.... I just have no words. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nancy O. Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 I am so very sorry for your loss. You and the children are in my prayers. Nancy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David A Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori , Please accept my condolences on the loss of Lenny, knonw that you and your children are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Karen C Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I'm so upset, I don't know what to say. But you sound like a strong person and I know you'll get through this OK. God Bless you and your beautiful children, Karen C. (David C's wife) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am so sorry for your loss. We cared for Lenny here and it is definitely a sad time for everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Remembering Dave Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 My thoughts and condolences go out to you and your family. It is so unfair for him to have lost his battle at such a young age. My prayers will be with you and your family. David C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurie Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am so sorry to hear about Lenny .. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family... Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am so sorry to hear that Lenny lost his battle. Much the same happened with Hugh - he contracted pneumonia and other things developed and he just couldn't fight them off. The doctor said it was like pulling the can from the bottom of a pryamid. It will be very hard for you and your children but you can do it! Every time I feel like giving up I think about Hugh and remind myself I have to keep going because he would have wanted me to. My heart goes out to you and the boys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Your children are precious! I am so sorry you and they have lost a husband and a dad at so young an age. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MO_Sugar Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for Peace for you and your family at this most difficult time. God Bless you, MO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debaroo Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Laurie, I am, too, am shocked and so very saddened by the news of lennys passing. I really liked him, I loved reading his posts. He fought such a good fight. Please know that you and your children are in my thoughts and prayers. We will miss Lenny here. If you need anything or just need to 'talk', we are here for you. You are part of our family. Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Lori, I'm sorry that I didn't get to read many of your husbands posts. I joined in Oct. so I went back to read about him. What a fighter he was! Great spirit! He was a brave man because of his strong desire to fight - and also what he did for a living. I can't even imagine your grief right now. I am so so sorry. I will pray for you and your boys. May God Bless, Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna D Posted December 5, 2003 Share Posted December 5, 2003 Oh Lori, I am so sorry about Lenny. My prayers are with you and those beautiful children. I am at a loss. Dona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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