Don M Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Hospice I had another lung function crash this past Tuesday. I got out of the hospital today. I went on antibiotics and prednisone. I had pneumonia. I have to be on oxygen 24 7 for now. I could still get some more function back. They did a ct scan and found that my cancer is spreading and growing. The big tumor is on the move again. I have 2 new lesions on my liver. It is apparently in my backbone and ribs. The small tumors are growing. The palliative care doctor at the hospital had a talk with my oncologist and they agree that any more treatment would cause more harm than good. I did not tolerate the last chemo well. I am inclined to agree with them and will probably enroll in home care hospice in a few weeks. I want to consult with my oncologist first on some items and I may run it all by the folks at Swedish. Mean while the family is fixing me up a nice big room down stairs so I won’t have to go up and down the stairs any more. I think I will like it there better. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don I am SO very sorry to read this update. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Many hugs Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieB Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 You will continue to be in my prayers. I hope your new room is full of love and light and many many wonderful moments. (((Don))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Hang in there Don. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzie Q Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 So sad to read about this, Don. May you remain comfortable and surrounded by love. Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Cherish yesterday, remember today and pray for tomorrow! Prayers and thoughts Don. You are such an inspiration to so many here !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dscherer Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Your are a true inspiration! My prayers are with you! Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cat127 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 I too am very sorry to read this Don, and like the others, you will definitely be in my prayers. You have been much help to me on this board, not sure if you knew that or not. For that I am grateful. Please take care and know you are in the thoughts of all of us here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 So sorry to read this, you are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbb Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don, I always look forward to your posts, you are one of my original friends here and have been so encouraging. I am praying you have peace, comfort and the love of family and friends surrounding you. You have mine. Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beatlemike Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Hi Don,I am so sorry to read the latest. I waited awhile to reply because I was not sure how to reply. I wish I had some great words of wisdom and advise but I dont. You Have been such a inspiration to me since I started coming here. Your a man of few words who says alot.You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.And thank you for helping me and so many others! Hope you have some great moments with your grandkids yet. May God bless you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don, my best to you. gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
recce101 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don, my very best as you enter this next phase. I hope you'll continue to post and share the wisdom you've gained over the years. Aloha, Ned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Oh Don. I have been thinking of you and that I hadn't seen many posts from you lately. Like others have expressed, you have been a great help to me on this board. And I am so saddened to read this update. May you continue to find comfort, joy, peace and happiness. Please take good care Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted November 2, 2008 Author Share Posted November 2, 2008 Thanks for your support everyone: t's like it will be a good hospice, not a bad one. It is like retiring from a second career. I hear they have a good home hospice service here. I intend to go sign up soon and then I will have a lot the care and expectations in place when I need it say 3 or 4 months from now. Right now I feel pretty good except that I am tehtered to the oxygen concentrator. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don, certainly not the news you wanted to hear. Long time members here are like good friends you have never met, so we all hurt with this news. You have beaten many odds before Don, I think hospice may be visiting you for a long time. I am glad you are home with your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyoung20 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don, Thank you for continuing to motivate and inspire us with you strength and courage! You are amazing!! God Bless!! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don- I am sorry to hear it is time for hospice. I hope you have a lot of time yet where you feel good. You have helped many people here with treatment recommendations and you've made a difference in many lives. That's something to be very proud of. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 (((Don))) Thanks for all your encouragement. Hope you have many, many good days ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Prayers and a big hug for ((((((((((((((((((Don)))))))))))))))))) Hope your very comfortable in your new room. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiredmom959 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 I just wanted to wish you the best in the weeks and months to come and let you know you were an inspiration to me when I was going through my mom's illness. Your posts always made be feel better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tkelley Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don, I have always been so inspired and impressed with the way you have handled your cancer care. You were so involved in what was going on and have made many well thought out and informed decisions over the years. I have no doubt that although this one was a difficult choice you have made the best choice for yourself. I will be praying for you and your family in the months ahead. Enjoy your time without treatment Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 ((((((((((((((((DON)))))))))))))))) Thank you Don for all of the support that you have given me since I got here three years ago. You were one of the main people who taught me to be assertively aggressive when it comes to my own health care, and to seek second opinions. Thank you so much. My prayers continue. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruce u Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don I can only echo the previous comments. You are a great inspiration here and as you can tell from the replies, it is really appreciated. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Don, you have always been one of my heroes since I've been here. The previous posters have said all I undoubtedly would say as well . You have been an advocate for not only yourself, but all of us, and I am grateful. You have taught us all how to 'do' this the best way we can. Your research, thoughtful decisions, and insightful posts have served all of us so well. I am sorry to hear this news, for sure. I hope you know that we will all be here for you ~ as you have been for all of us. Many prayers for you, friend. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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