Connie B Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 Mary Jo was a member and Good Friend to my In Person LC Support Group AND she was a member here at LCSC. Although she didn't post often, she fought long and hard to beat this monster that lurks within so many of us, and during that time she offered friendship, support and information to others. My heart aches for I have lost a Great Friend on Christmas day and I will forever miss her until we meet again. Mary Jo Would Say, "CANCER SUCKS" Hugs, Connie ********************************************************************* Anderson, Mary Jo View/Sign Guest Book Anderson, Mary Jo (Hayden) Of Hastings Age 61; after facing the challenge of lung cancer went to be with her Lord and Savior 12/25/2008 and is now walking Streets of Gold. She was preceded in death by her father Harry Hayden, father-in-law Andrew Anderson and step-father-in law Steve Seleski. Mary Jo is survived by mother Anna Hayden; mother-in-law Dora Seleski; husband Larry; and children Jason (Deb) Anderson, Jamey (Andrea Humphrey) Anderson, and Lisa (friend David Mikkelson) Lichtie; grandchildren Grace & Sophia Anderson, Elizabeth & William Anderson, Sarah, Kyrstin, Kathryn, & Gretchen Lichtie, Bethany, Katie & Paula Scharfe, Klara Mikkelson; brother John Eddie (Deb) Hayden. Visitation 9-11am Tuesday, 12/30/08 at CHRIST'S FAMILY CHURCH, 518 2nd St. E., Hastings with funeral service immediately following. Interment Lakeside Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred to Christ's Family Church, CaringBridge, or Allina Hospice. 651-437-9419 Published in the Pioneer Press from 12/27/2008 - 12/28/2008 Notice • Guest Book • Flowers • Visit the gift shop Create a Memorial Website Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flyman35 Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 I am so sorry Connie. My condolences to her family and friends. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muriel Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 I was lucky to be one of those who did meet Mary Jo. She was absolutely delightful. I am so sorry. Muriel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 My condolences to friends and family Connie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 When I got home from work I was so sad to read the E-mail from Larry ( her husband) that Mary Jo had died 10am on Christmas day. Thanks for your email also Connie. When I saw her last I did not realize it would be the very last time I would see her. I know she is well and happy now but it is still sad for those of us she left. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 ((((Connie)))) I am so very sorry about the loss of your friend. Although I never had the chance to "meet" her, Mary Jo sounds like a truly wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends. Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 I am standing right beside you Connie - Mary Jo was such a special woman. I am going to miss her dearly. Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Connie, I am so sorry for the loss to you and all the members here who called Mary Jo "friend." I didn't know her but as Donna said, the sadness is for those who remain. Judy in Key West Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 I am very saddened to read this news. My prayers and condolences to you Connie and to the family. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Ah Connie...............you've lost far too many special people in your life. I am sorry you are faced again with more loss. Thinking of you and hoping for the strength you need to get through your grief. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 I am saddened to read of yet another good friend. She sounded like an awesome lady. My condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 ((((Connie)))) I am so sorry for you and all who knew Mary Jo. I never had the pleasure to meet her but being a member here makes her family and I am saddened to hear this news. Condolences to all who knew her. (((((((Connie))))))) Hugs - Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 I'm so sorry Connie to hear about your friend. She is right in her sentiment about cancer, it does indeed SUCK! ((((Connie)))) Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 Sorry Connie and to Mary Jo's family. Cancer does suck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 My heartfelt condolences to Mary Jo's family and friends. I'm so very sorry. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 Today I went to Mary Jo's funeral . Her pastor said she had met with him and told him what she wanted and songs etc. It was very nice. Her son had recorded and wonderful song and they played it. Even with the snow today , the church was absolutely packed. Several from our support group in St. Paul were able to get there also. It was so sad to see Larry and their son's ( the sons broke down and cried several times during the service) Friends and family shared how loving she was, even with her suffering, she was in a prayer group praying for others. With O2 and in a Wheelchair Larry brought her to the first tuesday support group in December and she supported others there. WE were born the same month , the same year, graduated High School the same year, married the same year and we bothe had lung cancer! It is so sad she is gone but like the pastor said, now she is well and is in a better place waiting for all of us some day. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted December 31, 2008 Share Posted December 31, 2008 Donna, it must be so hard that you and Mary Jo shared so much but she lost her battle with LC. You are such an inspiration to so many of us and I know your friend would want you to carry on all the good you do here. I'm so sorry you lost your good friend. Judy in Key West Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted December 31, 2008 Author Share Posted December 31, 2008 Thank you Donna for sharing MaryJo's furneral with all of us. I am so sorry I could not attend it. I had talked to her 5 days before she passed. She was a fighter, a Loving, kind caring person. She did so much to support our troups in Iraq and she attended the furnerals of those who lost there lives in Iraq with other motorcycle riders even when she was so sick fighthing her cancer. She was a Police Despatcher for many years. She was a daughter, sister, wife, mother, mother-in-law, aunt, cousin, friend and she WILL be missed. Bye Bye Mary Jo, until we meet again my friend! I love you my friend! I'll miss you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 My deepest condolences goes out to you Connie and Donna for the loss of your dear friend. I know the wonderful memories you shared with her will live on in your hearts forever. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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