blueeye Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Today was the two year anniversary of diagnosis day for my Mom. Why can't I forget those days? It was a bad day. And I was in a funk all day today thinking about what happened after our initial trip to the ER. Such painful memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 (((((((Leslie)))))) I am so sorry. May today pass gently for you. I wish there was something I could say to make things better. Hugs to you - Patti Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueeye Posted February 4, 2009 Author Share Posted February 4, 2009 Thanks guys. I knew someone on here would "get it". I was actually shocked on Monday when I saw the date was 2/2...as if I felt it in my core what that day meant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atlanta1 Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 I know what you mean! For some reason lately I have been thinking about the day the doctor suggested hospice and the initial meeting with the hospice group. Honestly I think that was the worst 30 minutes of my life. Dad was very ill and really I was thinking it would just be days - and it was. I wonder how I ever got through it. Some time after my Dad died, I thought if given the option to be hypnotized and erase from my memory those painful days - I wouldn't do it. I think those experiences can shape you. Recently a friend of mine died at 37 and he was under hospice care. I reached out to his mother and felt an instant connection...as someone who had been there - I knew some of what she was feeling and maybe I said or expressed myself to her differently than I would have had I not gone through the same thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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