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Why do we remember the days?


blueeye

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It's the day that changed our lives forever and rewrote our histories....

I don't have enough years to know if it goes away completly...and then there are those like my siblings who never think of those dates and anniversaries and it doesn't seem to bother them in the least because they don't think about it- and I can't explain that either...

I just get it. And I'm sorry.

I hope things get better soon and that the day passed gently for you.

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I know what you mean! For some reason lately I have been thinking about the day the doctor suggested hospice and the initial meeting with the hospice group. Honestly I think that was the worst 30 minutes of my life. Dad was very ill and really I was thinking it would just be days - and it was. I wonder how I ever got through it. Some time after my Dad died, I thought if given the option to be hypnotized and erase from my memory those painful days - I wouldn't do it. I think those experiences can shape you. Recently a friend of mine died at 37 and he was under hospice care. I reached out to his mother and felt an instant connection...as someone who had been there - I knew some of what she was feeling and maybe I said or expressed myself to her differently than I would have had I not gone through the same thing.

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