Marci Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 Hi All, Well, I finally know why now when they say Men mourn different then women. Sorry to the few that still have the respect for their families. It just came out in front of the whole community that my Dad has been seeing a girl I went to highschool with. I didn't like her then and now I despise her for sleeping with my father so gross. He says he ended it not b/c he disgraced my mother's family and her memory but that he misses his wife. Whatever the damage to this mourning period has been forever tarnished. Yes, I do forgive him (he asked for foregiveness) b/c I love him but how much more can I take and my 18 year old brother right now. Well he has decided to sell the house that I rent an apt. with my husband so now we must make that transistion too and for me to get the house ready to be sold. I feel all this was so unfair and I told him that he denied me my mourning b/c this has all been about him so maybe by moving even though this is scary for me it will be the best thing I can do so I can mourn and have peace. I am begging people in my home to please let me mourn my mother in peace and they have just wiped me out. Marci Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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