4 and a half years

[RandyW]

is there pain??? Not really, over it now...

sadness?? Yes some days.....

Tears?? Some days and certain songs can start that one..

Do i miss her ?? now there are tears......

[jaminkw]

I want to be one of those friends who help you through it but somehow I know you will never stop missing Deb. Big virtual hug from here to there Randy.

Judy in KW

[RandyW]

thanks!! That means a lot to me!!

[Muriel]

((((((Randy))))))

Muriel

[marisa]

BIG hugs Randy!

[eric byrne]

Hi Randy,

Just to let you know I am in your corner every single day.God bless buddy.

[Nick C]

Randy...I know it just sucks...I'm sorry.

[Joppette]

Randy, my heart goes out to you. *sigh* My losses were not a spouse, I can't imagine that. But my Mom, Dad and Sister were devastating, so I can only imagine your pain. Sending you a great big cyber (((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))))))

Wishing bright days, and hope for you in your life now...as different as it is without her. ((((HUG)))))

\

Judy in MI

[SBeth]

I remember Randy. I remember coming back to LCSC a few weeks after I lost Bill and reading that you had lost Deb. I'm still so sorry for this undeniable void in your life and in your heart. I think of you often and send you hugs.

[Barb73]

((((Randy)))),

It has been four months and and ten days for me, but you have given courage through your kind words and understanding.

"Yelling up at the stars" has been a helpful tip.

Wish I could give back as much.

Barbara

[RandyW]

you do by posting here!!!! Thank you!! also throwing eggs helps with transferal of grief !! Just aim for the trees !!

[Barb73]

Haaaa,

I have a dozen sitting in the fridge that I am not in the mood to eat - - soooo, here goes.

Another great ideas, Randy. Bill, I am sure is smiling.

Barbara

[RandyW]

oh and don't hurt yourself throwing them!! Not worth the pain of the injury!!

[shineladysue]

((((Randy)))),

And two months later, I lost Mike. Sometimes, it just seems like it was yesterday. I do understand Randy and I keep you in my prayers , always.

BIG Hugs,

Sue

[beatlemike]

Randy,I just now saw your post. I hope you are feeling a little better. Im sure your Deb was one very special lady.

[RandyW]

Oh I am fine it just hits me for some reason out of the blue sometimes!! and its a ton of bricks for a few days!! then back to normalcy again!!

[tnmynatt]

Just now saw this Randy! (((((((Randy))))))))

I understand too as I wasn't fair behind you. Take care.

[lilyjohn]

I understand Randy and just want to let you know that you have made me laugh at times when I thought the tears would never stop. I think those days will always come for all of us but they don't stay all of the time like they did.It is music that undoes me most of the time,. /recently Misty's death. She was Johnnys long before she became mine/

I hope you are feeling better and again I thank you for helping me and so many others.

[Jana_W]

I think my Dad would feel the same as you. Hugs to you.

Jana

[ErinC1973]

Randy, I know this is VERY late, but the sentiment is still the same. My mom died from NSCLC 16 days after Deb. My dad died from NSCLC 11 years ago September 2. It really ,really hurts...still. God bless you, friend.

[fillise]

Randy,

Deb was so lucky to have you. I know she is smiling down on you now and telling you that she loves you.

Susan

[Ann]

Randy...I can't believe I missed this post. I am so sorry that I didn't respond to this that very day. I well remember the day you lost your lovely Deb and I cannot believe that it's been that many years already. December will mark 8 long years since I lost Dennis, the love of my life. There are so many times that it all seems like yesterday and then there are days that I struggle to remember each little detail. Pain...still very real...but now it's tucked away in a safe place, along with the love and memories.