fillise Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 My mom's obituary. http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/starne ... =145992344 Barbara Kent Fillippeli, 80, passed away Wednesday, October 13, 2010, after a 45 month battle with lung cancer. She was born February 25, 1930, in Greensboro, NC, the youngest daughter of Reese Babb and Oma Kent. She was preceded in death by her parents as well as by all of her brothers and sisters. On November 6, 1954 Barbara married David Fillippeli. Their marriage of almost 56 years was filled with love and laughter. She was a devoted wife and wonderful mother to their two children. Barbara was an active member of Winter Park Presbyterian Church where she served on the Board of Deacons and as an Elder. She was also active in the Presbyterian Women, serving in almost all offices of that organization as well as an Enabler for the Presbytery. In September, 2009 she was awarded an Honorary Life Membership to the Presbyterian Women (U.S.A.) Most recently she was part of a quilting ministry that made and delivered lap quilts to home bound members of her church. She loved sewing the quilts with her friends at church and she loved to see the look of happiness on the faces of the individuals who received the quilts. Barbara is survived by her husband Dave and her two children, Susan Fillippeli of Auburn, AL and David J. Fillippeli, Jr. and wife Christi of Kinston, NC. She was devoted to her two granddaughters Ashley and Bethany Fillippeli of Kinston. The girls loved their grandmother's spaghetti sauce and apple sauce and Grandmother took great delight in cooking those items for them as often as possible. She will be missed by many friends and family members. The family wishes to thank Dr. John W. Anagnost and the staff at Hanover Medical Specialists as well as Jill Finnegan and Wilmington Health for always treating her with compassion and for always listening to her and honoring her wishes. Also, a special thank you to her good friend Nancy McLean for her care and support during Barbara's illness. A Celebration of Life service for Barbara will be held at Winter Park Presbyterian Church at 11:00 am on Saturday, October 16, 2010. A reception will be held immediately following the service in Chadbourn Hall. Visitation will be held Friday evening from 6 to 8 pm at Andrews Mortuary Valley Chapel, 4108 S. College Road, Wilmington. Memorial gifts may be made to Winter Park Presbyterian Church, 4501 Wrightsville Avenue, Wilmington, NC. Online condolences may be made at www.andrewsmortuary.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 My thoughts prayers and condolences go out to your entire family and frineds Of both you and Your Mom, Susan! she fought a wonderful battle with a wonderful supporter! Be proud of all that you have done for her because I know she is proud of you.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bud Baker Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 So sorry to read this, Susan. She fought so well that I doubt that anyone was ready for this. Condolences to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KatieB Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 thank you for sharing your mom with us Susan...My deppest condolences, my thoughts and prayers with you and yoru families today. hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joppette Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 Susan, she lived life well. That is awesome. She will be missed by so many. Thank you for sharing her with us. My prayers and heart go out to you and yours. MI Judy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ts Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 Susan, Thank you for sharing her story and your struggle with us. It was inspiring to see so much love and respect between the two of you. Be kind to yourself in the days ahead. I hope you will stay in touch here to lend your wisdom. Hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 Susan, I am so very sorry. I have followed your Mother's journey for so long, she was a warrior. May she rest in peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted October 17, 2010 Share Posted October 17, 2010 Susan, the obituary is so beautifully written and helps us to know more about your mom. My heartfelt sympathies go out to you and all of her family and friends. I know she will be missed and remembered very fondly by many. May God be with you and yours as you go through the sometimes very difficult days ahead. Hugs, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eric byrne Posted October 17, 2010 Share Posted October 17, 2010 Hi Susan, I am sorry to read your sad news,your mum couldnt have had a more supportive daughter,thank you for sharing her life with us,you have provided so much support to everyone here.I hope you will maintain your links to your friends here.My sincere sympathy to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesLife Posted October 17, 2010 Share Posted October 17, 2010 Susan - I am so very sorry to read about your mom. She was generous in heart and spirit and I so admired your mom through your postings. The love you shared for each other was so obvious and I am so sorry for the pain you have in losing her. I pray that you and all those who loved her so deeply will find comfort in the difficult days ahead. Luv, Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 I am very sorry for you loss Susan and I must say what a beautiful tribute to your mom. God bless and help you find peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 Susan, I am very sorry to read of your mother's passing. While I was reading her obituary, I kept thinking about what a wonderful life she had! You're a very lucky lady to have been blessed with such a special mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you while you go through this difficult and sorrowful time. I hope it can bring you comfort to know that you have so many friends here that care!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 Ah susan ~ how very sad to read your news. Please know how very sorry I am. You've been such an advocate and support - more than you did for your wonderful mother could not have been done by anyone. I am hopeful that the many wonderful memories of this very special mother will offer you some bit of comfort during these most difficult times. I lost my own mother at age 38 and am still lost without her (and I am OLD now) so I understand the road ahead without having her. You and your family have been in our prayers here since I read the news of your mom's downturn. You will remain there and hope knowing that so many people care for you and support may bring you some comfort as well. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted October 20, 2010 Author Share Posted October 20, 2010 Thank you everyone. She was a very special lady and I'm so grateful to have had her as my mom. We got a lot longer with her than I though we should when she was first diagnosed. I am trying to concentrate on being grateful for all that time and all those wonderful memories. Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fighting4mom Posted October 21, 2010 Share Posted October 21, 2010 Dear Susan, My sincere condolences to you and your family. I am so sorry to learn this news. Gentle hugs and prayers to you, Kimberly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flyman35 Posted October 22, 2010 Share Posted October 22, 2010 I am sorry to come on here and read this news Susan. My condolences to you and your family. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted October 22, 2010 Share Posted October 22, 2010 What a wonderful tribute to your mom. I am so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiredmom959 Posted October 23, 2010 Share Posted October 23, 2010 So sorry to hear about your mom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Libby Posted October 23, 2010 Share Posted October 23, 2010 Susan I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is saddened for you and your family. You were a great daugher and supporter for your Mom and I am sure she greatly appreciated it. Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barb73 Posted October 24, 2010 Share Posted October 24, 2010 Dear Susan, I am so very sorry that I was not here sooner to offer you my condolences on your Mom's passing. You were to her as my daughter was to us, a loving, wonderful gift. God, I do not know what I would have done without our daughter being there for us. We were very blessed, as your Mom was in having you. Susan, the pain of grieving is so intense, but it may be helpful to keep in mind that only when we have had the special blessed love of our loved ones, and we back at them, do we suffer this much. We were gifted. Love Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted November 3, 2010 Share Posted November 3, 2010 I 'm sorry I thought I responded to this. I'm deeply saddened to hear the news about your mom. I know how hard it is when a mom leaves us. I miss my mom so much, but I am also full of so many wonderful memories we shared. I know you have so many with your mom too. My deepest sympathies are with you and your family. We are always here for you whenever you need us. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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