fillise Posted October 26, 2010 Share Posted October 26, 2010 I thought I was prepared for mom's death. I mean, she was 80 and we had known that at some point she would go. But I now realize that while I was prepared for the idea of her death, I was not prepared for the reality of it. I suspect that is the way it is for most of us if not for all of us. Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted October 26, 2010 Share Posted October 26, 2010 Sue, You just couldn't possibly be prepared...no matter the circumstances. You are right, you are not alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted October 26, 2010 Share Posted October 26, 2010 You're never 'ready.' And it's one of those things that you just can't anticipate fully until you're there. It hurts more than you could ever imagine and is full of so many emotions that you just didn't expect. At least it was that way for me. Be gentle with yourself and let yourself be where you are. There are no 'supposed tos' right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted October 26, 2010 Share Posted October 26, 2010 I got nothing to add but hugs and prayers to ya My part time neighbor to the east!! Hang in there Susan! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted October 27, 2010 Share Posted October 27, 2010 I'm thinking of you, Susan. It's so true that we're never really prepared for the finality of losing someone we love. I had planned, prepared and I thought I was somewhat ready to handle losing Dennis. But, when the time came and I realized I would never see him again in this lifetime, it hit me like a ton of rocks! Hang in there, you can do this!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barb73 Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 Susan, I am so very sorry to learn of your Mom's passing. No, we are never ready - no matter the age - it's always a great void. I offer my heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Susan. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dianew Posted November 1, 2010 Share Posted November 1, 2010 Susan - I was so sorry to see this post. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Diane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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