kristinj Posted December 23, 2010 Share Posted December 23, 2010 Hi Friends, It has been a month and a half since we lost our Dad on November 2. His battle was short- 2 months- but, arduous. Now, we are in full on support mode for one another, but mainly, my Mom. She is just so sad, but is also angry with the doctors, hospital, nurses, the whole thing. I just do not know what to say to her that can provide comfort. I really do not think that there is anything, but, it is so hard to hear her sadness and not be able to help. I am also not in that place with her, so I am not sharing the same emotion. I feel a certain peace and acceptance of my Dad's passing and while I am miss him terribly and get hit by waves sometimes, I also know how much joy and love he brought to all of us. He lived a wonderful life and the way that I can testify to that, is by celebrating and living the best way that I can. Mom will not be there for a while. It is so painful to watch her sadness and grief. Thanks for listening. Happy Holidays. Kristin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jstdzy Posted December 23, 2010 Share Posted December 23, 2010 You are doing exactly the right thing "listening". Sorry Mom is having such a hard time. Prayers on the way! Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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