Joppette Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Hi friends, Going to take a indefinite hall pass. I was told I was rude by a person here and it hurt me. Know that I care and want to know how you are. MI Judy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Hall pass denied! Girl no one can deal with cancer and be perfect in everything they say or do. Also know that sometimes people with cancer feel offended because the cancer has offended them first. We are all in this thing together! I was offended by being diagnosed with this awful disease. I was offended when people tried to reach out to me at first. Why? Heck I don't know. Cancer just does that to you. Hall pass denied!!! You are needed here!!! Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Judy, I read all of your posts. I have never seen even a scintilla of rudeness. Please do not allow one person to keep you from those of us who look forward to your posts. Now that would be rude. Stay please. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eric byrne Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Hi Judy, I am really saddened to read of decision to withdraw from posting here.I have always felt I have joined a new special family of friends here,we have shared some of the highs and lows that life has thrown at us,but through it all, being here has given me so many happy times sharing with you all the things that is my life here in Scotland,and enjoying reading about your lives in the USA. I am sorry that someone has upset you here,I suppose it is enevitable in any "family" that this will happen,gosh I know from my posts I may cross the line and cause offence to someone inadvertantly,hoping I am only rebuked and it dosnt lead to someone stopping posting in. I do hope Judy you will reconsider,in the meantime,please accept my very best wishes for health and happiness,for the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Judy, don't stop posting. If someone says you have been rude, the best thing to do is say you are very sorry if they took it that way. It was not intended. Then you can go off and lick your wounds for awhile because it is bound to hurt. Like others, I read your posts and didn't catch anything rude either. But lacking facial expression and body language, you usually don't even know you are offending. That's what makes virtual communication tricky but so worth it! Judy in KW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Can WE GET A GROUP HUG OUT OF THE DRYER PLEASE!!???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Well..................darn it all, everyone. We all love everybody here. Judy, I SO believe that Katie either lost her mind (which I KNOW she has done more than one time since I've been here - 7 years now) OR just responded without thinking, IF it was, indeed, Katie you refer to. Or I really should say to whom you refer. Let's begin anew, for I would truly miss you, Judy, if you were on a pass. However, Ry is the official pass giver and she did NOT issue one . Love all here and need all here ~ especially today. XXXOOO, Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alan Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Allow me to butt in please. I feel like some kind of family member. Please pardon all my missgivings too. I admire all of you deeply for every thing all of you do. We are lung cancer survivors and caregivers for cryin out loud. We are lucky to have each other when we think no one else understands. I know that my REAL family is as disfunctional as all get out. I felt so bad a few weeks ago that I deleted everything I could find. Sometimes it's hard to not "offend" or tresspass. We are all so different, but are members of this group. Some new like me, some fortunately alot longer. Aren't all families difunctional to some degree? I agree with Randy, A group hug and a restart are in order. here's mine--(((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))))))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dianew Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Mine too - ((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))) This is the only site I belong to except for cancer grace. I know that I am not good at posting very regularly, and I do feel guilty about not doing better - but the reason this site is so important to me is that everyone seems to truly care about everyone else - even through good days and bad. I never come here without feeling better when I leave. Like Alan - I can't always say the same for my "real" family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Me in on the ((((((((GROUP HUG))))))))) too. Judy in KW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted November 9, 2011 Share Posted November 9, 2011 As Suze orman says -- DE-NIED. Listen to the hall monitor or you'll be in the Principals's office. Not the first time things have gotten testy around here and it won't be the last. Believe me -- we've had rude here and you ain't it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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