IIIp0 Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Dear Family - My husband passed away quietly, peacefully after a long hard struggle; first with his cancer of course, but in the end, with much fluid in the lungs, and his poor heart just couldn't keep up, and his lungs were tooo weak to get rid of. He died yesterday at 11:15 a.m. And while my heart aches in ways I've never known or realize just yet, I can tell you that these last seven months together were God's Gift to each of us -- to make our amends; to love each other unconditionally; and to "be" the story-book, the fairy-tale lovers and friends that we always imagined a marriage would be. I am so very grateful to have had this honor of being there without any thought of my own, other than to love and to help him through this.... As much as I prayed for our daughter to make it back from Australia before he passed, I know there are no coincidences; that she wasn't supposed to 'see' him in his final hours -- so that she could remember her dad as she always had, and not brought out on a gurney..... I've called Australia to let the group know so they will comfort her and she will carry on. The funeral will be held upon her return -- and it is going to be such a wonderful great tribute to a man that was so very loved, by so many. I can only wish for such rememberances..... I will be back, but not for some time now as I try to take care of business and prepare for our daughter's return, and the greatest celebration and honor of all time -- my husband's memory. Thank you all for your support, your wisdom, experience, strength and hope for all of us on this rocky road. As I pray for my hubby, I will pray for each of you as well, and all of our recoveries. Big Hugs - Beth Husband of 23 years passed July 7 at 11:15 a.m., while the Angels waited nearby.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 i am so so so sorry. words can't express my heartfealt sympanty for you and your daughter right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elaine Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth, I am so sad but also so relieved to hear that you have gained from the experience. Your love will go on and on in your memories and in your daughter. love elaine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowflake Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, but so glad you made the most of the time you had left. May you find comfort in the hours before dawn and see him soon in your dreams. Love, Becky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayFrog Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Please accept my sincerest condolences on the loss of your husband. That you were able to turn these last few months into a positive, loving experience brings tears to my eyes. Bless you and your family......Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth , I am so sorry for you and your family. Sincerely, Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth~ So very sorry for your loss. I wish you strenght to get through the days ahead. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheresaKB Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Hello, I am sorry for your loss. Theresa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth, We have already talked, but I once again want to send you and your family my most sincere sympathy. I am so sorry for this great loss. I know you were married to Bob for a very long time. Losing a spouse has got to be one of the hardest things in the world to deal with and you have written to us with such grace and honor for your husband. You are quite a remarkable woman. I hope you all enjoy the celebration of your dear Bob's life. Love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brm1949 Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Sorry to hear about your loss. Stay with us for support when needed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth, I am so sorry for your loss, may you have peace and strength for the time needed to adjust to living without him, the road will be hard but the souvenirs will be there. My sincere sympathy. J.C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
betplace Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Oh ((Beth)) I am soo sorry! I know how hard you faught, I wish the outcome could have been better. My heart is weeping for you. Blessings Betty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth i am so so sorry to hear of your loss he must have been a truly wonderful husband and father...... Larry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth, I am so sorry for your loss.Yiu and your family will be in our prayers.Keep strength in the days to come. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Addie Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth... My deepest sympathy for your loss. May the wonderful memories comfort you in the days ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 I am so sorry for your loss. Please know we are all grieving along with you. May you find comfort in your wonderful, loving memories during this time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fay Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth, I'm sorry for your loss. May friends and family surround and support you and may you find comfort in their love. Faylene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandyS Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth - Your words are so eloquent........ My deepest condolences, Hugs and prayers, SandyS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remembering Dave Posted July 8, 2004 Share Posted July 8, 2004 Beth, I am so sorry. I am sure he will enjoy having a Celebration in his honor. I truely believe that that is the way to say farwell to our loved ones. Please know that you are in my prayers. David C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 Beth, my heartfelt sympathies to you and your family at the loss of your husband. May you find peace. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angie Daughter of Bill Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 Beth Please accept my deepest sympathy for your great loss. I'm so glad that you and your dear hubby had a chance to "make the most out of life". Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam'swifeShirley Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 Dear Beth, My sincere condolences to you and your family. Praying for strength for you during this difficult time. May God Bless Us All. Sam'swifeShirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bean_si (Not Active) Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 Beth, I am so sorry. This will be a very hard time for you. Give in and cry when you need to. Come here and visit and talk. You said it best - no more pain for him. Thank the Almighty. Cat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eileen Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 Beth I am so sorry for the loss of your dear husband---my sympathy to you and your family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BJ Posted July 9, 2004 Share Posted July 9, 2004 Beth, My sympathies to you and your family. And a prayer that you find the strength to endure. BJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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