shirleyb Posted July 10, 2004 Share Posted July 10, 2004 I found out today that I seem to be following in Shelly's footsteps. I failed my mammogram and now have to go in for further tests. I really don't want to think the worst, but after this last year, am I scared of cancer of any kind.....you betcha!! I know all the stats and that if it is breast cancer, there is a very good probability of surviving it. But I also know my family history. I know in my head that there is a possibility of it not being cancer, but until I know that for sure, I am scared. The worst part of this is I can't even make the followup appointment until Monday, then there is the waiting. I hate waiting. I want to know now darn it. Like I need anymore stress in my life. I will let you know what I find out when I find it out. I just pray I am over reacting and that everything is fine. I need someone to hold my hand and I choose you guys. Thanks for being here. Shirleyb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted July 10, 2004 Share Posted July 10, 2004 Prayers going up Shirley. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa O Posted July 10, 2004 Share Posted July 10, 2004 I'll add you to my prayers. Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted July 10, 2004 Share Posted July 10, 2004 Shirley, i will hold your hand and you can hold mine. we will get through this together. My biopsy's are this coming Thrusday the 15th. They are trying to prepare me for the worst. I already expect it. I am prepared, i think, if it is cancer. At least my sister and I will be in the same fight together. Her 2nd surgery is scheduled for the 26th for the lumpectomy and lymph node biopsy's. then she starts radiation about 4 weeks after that w/chemo. Imagine me with you there in your appointment and I will do the same. I am there for you. always..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley, hand held, prayers comin'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remembering Dave Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley, waiting is hard. I hope they can get you in soon and that everything is OK. My prayers are with you. David C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley, Just wanted you to know I will keep you in my prayers and dont worry many woman fail their mammograms and it ends up being a benign sist. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karenl Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley Hoping this ends up to be nothing to worry about. Wishing you well. Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeTaa Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 I'm squeezing your hand real tight. Sure hope you can feel it and it brings you some comfort. I'll be thinking about you as you face this challenge. Blessings, TeeTaa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Dear Shirley, You know if you ever wish to talk you can call me. Honey, I'm saying lots of paryers that this is just a re-do! Love & Hugs, Con Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley, I understand your fear. I had a failure several years ago and was also very scared. They tried a needle biopsy but it was too deep to get to it. When they tried the needle biopsy, they then found two cysts instead of one, so I had to have them surgically removed and biopsied - both of them were benign. Also, it was the easiest surgery (recovery) that I have ever had and I have had quite a few surgeries. I was amazed, and like I said, they were both deep. Actually, I had it done on a Friday and couldn't even take off work on Monday, with a clear conscience , because it was almost painless. It will be ok, and I will say prayers for you. God bless, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyCW Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley, It's not nice to be a copycat, and I really wish you wouldn't! Seriously, I'm sorry to hear this and sorry you have to WAIT. I hope come Monday that things will speed up and that your peace of mind will be restored real soon - as well as good health. Prayers coming from Southern California, BeckyCW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandyS Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley - I failed mine too - but it ended up being benign - hang in there sweetie - and try to think positive......... Hugs and prayers, SandyS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirleyb Posted July 11, 2004 Author Share Posted July 11, 2004 Thank you all for being here. I don't know what I would do if I lost the ability to be here. Thank you all for holding my hand, just as I am holding yours. Together, we can get through this. Shelley, you especially are in my prayers. Much love, Shirleyb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall54 Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley, I also had a little pea feeling thing this past year and it was benign. You are in my prayers always, God Bless You, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chloesmom Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley and Shelly, When I was going through all the testing that led to diagnosis, both for the breast cancer and the lung, I told the doctors and their nurses about my anxiety and worry and that I wasn't sleeping or eating over all the waiting. I swear they did their very, very best to move my testing along quickly. Didn't make the pathology reports any prettier, but once we had a diagnosis and a plan, at least I could see us moving in the right direction instead of just waiting for another appointment or test or surgery calendar opening. For my part, I had to be really flexible if I wanted that kind of consideration--I remember going in for my biopsy, which was under general anesthetic, at 3pm, after not being able to eat or drink anything from about 6 that morning. And, xanax was a big help for me throughout both ordeals. Good luck, you'll both be in my thoughts.......try to remember, even if, and that's a big if, this is a cancer, it carries a very good prognosis, and, while the treatment is nothing anyone would ever volunteer for, it's so doable.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley, I had 7 bad mammos and all ended in operations (not biopsies) and all were benign, so hope is there. I will hold your hand you will need a spare one the way it goes. So I will say some prayers for you and wish you the best. J.C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Dear Shirley, Is it just me, or is this da** cancer everywhere. I am only sorry that you have to wait to get the 'good' news. Waiting is horrible. I was told one time that my mammogram showed 'fluffy' breasts (and I always thought it was only my hips that were fluffy). Scared me to death but it turned out to be nothing. My dear friend and my sister both literally breezed through the lumpectomy and radiation. At age 69 my sister drove herself to radiation everyday. My freind is a 13 year survivor. My prayers and hugs are heading your way dear Shirley. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glo Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley - Adding my prayers that it's nothing. We all know there are many scares on the mammograms that turn out just fine, but until we get that report it's real scary. Wishing you the best. Feel free to PM. Gloria Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Please keep in mind that 80% of all breast lumps are benign. And mammograms are not 100%. There is ultrasound, needle biopsies, and removal before any diagnosis. Please find a reliable and recommended doctor, and don't forget about 2nd opinions. My breast surgeons do it routinely. What I don't like, personally, is the "let's wait and see", without getting another opinion. Let me know gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamie Posted July 11, 2004 Share Posted July 11, 2004 Shirley, Just want to diddo what everyone else has already said. Good Luck with the upcoming tests, were all pullin for you! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted July 12, 2004 Share Posted July 12, 2004 Shirley I am sorry that you have this worry. I will be thinking very positive thoughts tomorrow. Praying that all is well. PM me if you need someone to talk to. Lillian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJAS Posted July 12, 2004 Share Posted July 12, 2004 Stats aside - this stuff is scary. Been down the road recently myself. You hang in there, go outside and yell good and loud that you have had quite enough cancer in your life and won't be having any more!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elaine Posted July 12, 2004 Share Posted July 12, 2004 Shirley, I know you are scared and that is normal. We all are here to support you until you find out the Good News, I just pray it is good news. We all pray it is!. love elaine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted July 12, 2004 Share Posted July 12, 2004 Praying for you all! My cousin recently failed, and had 3non malignant cysts removed. Hping the same for both of you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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