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I lost my brother Art tonight he had a massive heart attack. I am so in

shock he just turned 46. I just needed someone to share with I feel so

alone. I just lost my mother alittle over a year ago to lung cancer.

Need prayers for his 9 year old son. He loved his pappa so much this

will be so hard for him. Haylee

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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I will hold you all in my prayers...for strength, understanding and peace. Your brother was far too young to die and my heart goes out to his little boy. I hope this tender little soul will be able to deal with this loss in a way that eventually he will have his treasured memories and less sadness.



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I am so very sorry about losing your Brother. My Dad died at 46 with the same thing. After just losing my Brother I know exactly how you feel. I am not sure if it is better to lose someone suddenly or through a period of time. My dad was sudden as was my 1st husband in a car accident at age 29. It was total shock. After dealing with Alan's illness over the span of 5 months I know now what it feels like to have someone there but feel each day you are losing them. I was in grieving ever since I knew of his dx. I am not saying both ways arent horrible but I am just not sure truthfully what is the best way if it has to happen at all. I feel so sad for his 9 year old. It will be hard on him for sure. I guess I just dont know what to say except I am so very very sorry.

God Bless You All,


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Thank you for all the support. I only slept a few hours last night it

still seems un real. I am with you Jane on not knowing which is harder.

I was the soul caregiver for my mom while she was battling her lc.

That was a daily grieving the entire 7 months. I am just so sad that I

did not get a chance to talk to my brother one last time. He lived out of

state and my daughter said he called me several times on Sunday. I

missed his last call to me and yesterday when I called the people who

he stays with on there property went to get him and I was actualy on the

phone when they found him. :( I still even as writting this feel like it

is just a nightmare and I will wake up. Haylee

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Thank you all so much for your support and comforting words. Even

though I am married to a wonderful man with four wonderful kids.

If this makes any sense I feel so alone. My sister is in another state

and my other brother in a different city. Plus have lost my parents I

feel so alone inside and all of your replys have helped me so much.

My sister will be here Saturday coming in from Las Vegas can not

express how much I need her now. Thanks again everyone. Haylee

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So sorry to hear the news. It's great that you and your sister will be together. May you find comfort in family and friends.


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