Remembering Dave Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 Hi all. I feel bad because I haven't even peeked at this forum in a few weeks, and here I am venting out my problems. I'm just down down down. I feel overwhelmed. Dave had chemo yesterday and was so sick. I'm trying to take care of our feisty little daughter. And work full time. And I filed some papers with the local court to finalize Faith's adoption and now a woman at the adoption agency says she won't sign off on our final homestudy report to the court unless we do a whole new one INCLUDING making us both pass physicals. Long story but she can't do this to us - we passed our final post placement reports 12 months after we got Faith and that is all the court requires. I feel that she is targeting us because of Dave's illness (she made reference to our suitability as parents - HOW DARE HER). We were on vacation last week and now I'm swamped at work. My mom is having surgery in two weeks for her colon cancer, surgery on her liver - MAJOR surgery. Dave's parents are coming but may not be here by then. And I'm totally exhausted and trying to juggle all this. I just don't want any pressure from anyone but feel like I'm getting it from everyone. Did I mention hos tired I am? I'm trying to look in my crystal ball to the future, when all of this is behind us. But it's hard to do right now. Thanks for listening, Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.