gerbil runner Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 I know it's frustrating and upsetting...but it's do-able. Prayers going out for you both. Don't forget to take care of yourself, Shelly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimd Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Shelly: You're being a tremendous help to your sister whether you realize it or not and she's very lucky to have you at her side. I know it's hard to stay positive, but I also feel that your sister is going to beat this! Am praying hard for both of you! I always admire your honesty and especially the strength you have had this past year in being there for so many people. When I start to feel down about losing my dad, I come to this board for inspiration and words of wisdom from so many. We have a very tough, brave group here! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chloesmom Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Shelly, Let me just weigh in here and say that I wish things were going easier for you and your sister. With me and my breast cancer, two surgeries did the trick. But, like Gail said, that happens sometimes that they can't get clean margins and a masectomy is the recommended treatment. I know someone who did the masectomy right off the bat because she didn't want to deal with the repeat surgery possibility. As long as the nodes are clear though, this is still good news. I would have hated to lose a breast too, but I have already decided that is the breast cancer does come back, that's the way I'm going. I want to minimize my surgical experiences as much as possible. The important thing is that your sister's docs do what they can to remove all cancer......why fight with trying to kill cancer cells that can be surgically removed? I understand the stress you're both under--please know I'm thinking about you and hoping for the best for you both..... Take care......Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melinda Posted September 15, 2004 Share Posted September 15, 2004 Shelly-- My mom has battled breast cancer twice (one time in each breast)--and won. The second time she opted to have a double masectomy. As others have said the procedure is no fun--but is your sister's nodes are clean that is GREAT news. Nonetheless, I know how scared you and your sister must be at this time. Please feel free to PM me if you have any questions (and I am sure my mom would be happy to talk to your sister, too). (((HUG))) Melinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyCW Posted September 16, 2004 Share Posted September 16, 2004 Shelly, I'm so sorry your sister has to go through still more to fight this cancer off. But she WILL fight it off, and she's fortunate to have you fighting by her side. Hang in there and know that we're all pulling for her! BeckyCW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bean_si (Not Active) Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Shellie I didn't find this until now. I have a suggestion. I'll PM you with it. (Shades of Shamanic practice and such) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melaniem Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 shellie, i have said before, i don't know which is harder. to be the patient or the care-giver, loved one, etc. your heart must be broke. my sister was one of my biggest supporters since my lc began, i suspect you are for your sister or you would not be here. that shows the kind of person you are, even after what you've already been through w/your parents. shellie, i will pray for you and your sis that ya'll will get old together. take heart in knowing many people here have been through what you are experiencing and are telling the story to comfort others, you will, too. try to find something to laugh about today, laughter through tears is the best laughter there is. love you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 I am so sorry!!!! No one should have to go through this let alone more than 1 time... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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