London Lad Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 Here's a little story. Back when I just a very young lad i.e. over 30 years ago now, my dad took me to see a football team play (soccer team for all my US friends). From that day on I was hooked with Manchester United - for the women in my life since, some may argue dangerously obsessed. It's an obsession of support that my dad and I hold up to this day. When my dad was diagnosed with lung cancer and given 6 months to live, back in March of this year, amidst all the turmoil, one thought kept coming to the forefront of mind - to re-pay dad and get him to a big game like he did for me all those years ago. But the season was drawing to a close, dad was mid-way through chemo and who knew if he'd make it to next season. Well a few weeks ago, I entered the hallowed stadium, amongst 70,000 other devoted fans, having got tickets for my dad and I. He hardly walked for months but that day he walked several miles. As we entered the stadium and took to our seats, we both smiled smiles wider than you can imagine and then both shed a few tears (a bit like I am right now typing this). It was a truly wonderful day. Our team won. My dad even shouted back at the opposition fans and I'll treasure the memory while my mind is still alive. Thank you for indulging me. Sean Quote
Ry Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 Oh how great for you both! That is wonderful. Rochelle Quote
TeeTaa Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 No. Thank YOU. Even though you did make me cry. TeeTaa Quote
Don Wood Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 Sean, that is so beauitful and you will treasure the memory forever. I am so glad you two got to do that together. Don Quote
Frank Lamb Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 Sean, That was a wonderful story and I'm glad the two of you got to share that special day. Quote
paddy Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 What a wonderful memory to treasure London Lad. I was born in Sussex and so know how crazy the English are over there Soccer! Paddy Quote
luvmydog2 Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 That is an experiance that no one can take from you. Sounds like your dad enjoyed it as much as you did. The way you worded it, it makes it seem like we were there with you. Thanks for shareing. Quote
Amy P Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 Sean - Thanke you for sharing such an amazing memory. My husband is a soccer coach here in the states and is taking one of his teams on a 10 day tour with 6 friendly matches interspersed - we (at least I hope I will be accompanying him ) will get to visit the Theatre of Dreams while there. I will definately be thinking of you and your Dad and that wonderful day. Much Love, Amy Quote
Nushka Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 What a wonderful day for both of you. I am so glad you got to share that time together. Nina Quote
stand4hope Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 Sean, I'm so glad you got to have this special time with your dad. You will cherish these memories forever. Love, Peggy Quote
mirrell Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 what a wonderful story. i wish many more for you and your father. "do not seek time to waste with your friends, but take time to live". wishing you all the best. mirrell Quote
lisaRN Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 Dear London Lad, Thank you for sharing your INSPIRING story..... It serves to remind us that while we get caught up in the day to day dr's appts and the like..... there are still many memories we can be making.... We just need to SLOW DOWN and take the time to make them..... Thanks again for the reminder..... WITH EVERY DIFFICULTY ~ THERE IS RELIEF...............LISA Quote
cindi o'h Posted October 3, 2004 Posted October 3, 2004 Sean, Very thoughtful. Very inspirational. Love your title too. You are a good son. Glad your football team won! Cindi Quote
patut Posted October 3, 2004 Posted October 3, 2004 Wonderful story Sean and thanks so much for sharing it. My hubbie is a high school assistant soccer coach who is now once again able to drive himself to some practices and games. This is what keeps him going. I am happy your Dad could walk so far that day. It's amazing what we can do if we really want to. You created a wonderful experience and memory for both you and your dad. Quote
J.C. Posted October 3, 2004 Posted October 3, 2004 Thank you Sean, Memories are so wonderful and so easy to prepare them for later when we need them the most. J.C. Quote
lindseysmom Posted October 6, 2004 Posted October 6, 2004 Thanks Sean for sharing that wonderful story with us. Best Wishes, Dee Quote
todayswinneris Posted October 7, 2004 Posted October 7, 2004 Having those little things to bond over brings the greatest moments to memory. Later on in life you'll really appreciate it. Every second counts when a loved one has cancer. Thank you--this post made my day a little brighter. Love, Laura Quote
MJ Posted October 8, 2004 Posted October 8, 2004 dear sean, thank you for indulging us with that wonderful story. what a wonderful memory to have. praying that you have many more to come in the future. God bless, mj Quote
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