Thank you all for your advice. I truly want to support her and her family the best I can from here. I will be going there in the next month. For now I'm sending care packages with comforting things for my sister. I feel like I just need to "do" something. What I'm very concerned about is that she has had a fever from her first chemo treatment. It's been 5 days now and she's still in the hospital. They think it's an infection but they can't pinpoint it. This worries me but I've also been told that having a fever can be pretty normal for chemo treatments. Can anyone shed any light on this for me? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk