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  1. Beth, you are in my prayers. I log on everyday too, but many times don't have any input. Take one day at a time. Take care of yourself, and put that priority

    first. Every day is a struggle, and takes enormous energy. :cry: I have no words to offer you except..one day at a time, nothing is ever the same again, treasure your memories..because in the end that's all we really have. I'm holding you close to my heart..I think I know your pain. You were a wonderful loving wife to your husband. Be thankful for those memories. God bless, write me anytime, Nancy

  2. Brenda, I am so sorry for your loss. We cannot judge anyone...we don't know the enormous amount of pain these cancer patients suffer. Your father is sitting in the hand of God, and is at peace. Do not torture yourself. He was a wonderful man, and knew where he wanted to be. God bless you,Nancy C

  3. I am so sorry about your enormous loss. :cry: I am keeping you and your family in my prayers during this most difficult time. Alyce is at peace, and must be happy..as she gave those last few comforting signs. God bless you, Nancy C

  4. Pat, I am praying for you. It is the worst hurt in the world, to lose the one you love. :cry::cry: I understand how you feel, God bless, Nancy C

  5. I am so upset by this disease, taking another one we love so much. I have no words. :cry::cry::cry: My heart is heavy. :cry::cry:

    God bless Addie and her family. Nancy C

  6. Donna. you not acting normal? How stupid of a statement is that, when you have just lost a loved one?? :roll:

    There is no time table for grieving. It is only 2 1/2 months for you. Not 2 or 3 years. Death is so final. Our loved one is not here anymore. Not only are we missing them, but we are facing the fact they aren't coming back to this earth. Death is a final and major loss of in a person's lifetime. I too, am very sad that my brother is gone. I can't expect to adjust to this loss yet, if ever. It has just been 3 months for me, and my wound is so very raw. I just pray to God daily so I can make it through another day. I don't feel like I'm living..I'm still too numb. God bless,Nancy C

  7. What you're feeling is very normal. It has been 7 months since I lost Mike, and 3 months since I lost my brother, Ron. I am no where near done grieving, nor do I expect to be soon. As I have been told in my grief support group..we have to go THROUGH the grief, not around it..so there is no time table. Please be easier on yourself. God bless, Nancy C

  8. Since Mike has died, I also had the water heater go out, my refrig had to be replaced and I had car troubles. :( All I was able to take care of with phones calls, frustation and alot of fricking tears! And I even swore at Mike a couple times, looking at the sky, as I did it! I also never had to worry about these things. I hate this. But, all these things can be fixed...I wish our husbands could have been fixed and were still with us...... Love you all, Nancy C

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