Let me reiterate my welcome and the fact that it stinks that you have to be here. I am "young", 50 and have young kids, not working is not an option for me. I have great health care and working is the way I keep it. I am lucky enough to feel good and want to work. I dont want to sit around and think about cancer. If I was independently wealthy, maybe I would travel and volunteer, but that is not the case. I agree with whomever wrote that if you are considering moving, think about moving to a place with good health care. I think that Johns Hopkins Medicine does have a campus someplace in Florida, but I am not sure where. MD Anderson is in Texas and excellent!
I know your head must be swimming, but pause, get a bio maker test, see the results and what that means for treatment and then make other decisions.
We are here for you.