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  1. I understand Peggy. When Dad makes a call to me on my cell phone from his cell phone, it flashes saying 'Mum's calling'. I don't have the heart to change it, and it always makes my heart ache when I see it :cry:

    Love Karen

  2. Dear Sherri

    You are in such a tough spot!

    Like I mentioned in a pm, I would consider getting your Dad reviewed by a neurosurgeon, if time permits - I don't know how long it takes to get an appointment where you are. A neuro would probably be in a better position than the oncologist to determine whether your Dad is a good surgical candidate.

    BUT, whatever happens, always remember that you are doing the best you can for your Dad, and it is HIS decision in the end.

    All the best,

    Karen

  3. Dear Fay

    Your words have helped me countless times over the last two years. I will miss you......

    Love always

    Karen

    "To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children, to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you lived. This is to have succeeded."

    - Ralph Waldo Emerson

  4. Dear Karen

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with continuing to search for, and hope for, something that might help Ken. We did the same thing for Mum, right up until the end - HOPE is what kept us all going....

    I hope you get a miracle,

    Love Karen

  5. Dear Lori

    I am so sorry you are going through this. Sounds similar to how Mum was towards the end (not that I'm saying your Mom is in the same boat - surgery was never an option in our case....just that I can relate to how you are feeling.) We were very fortunate in that Dad is a doctor, and we had a very good hospice service helping out, so we were all able to spend all our time with Mum and Dad. I ditto what Becky said ten-fold.....if at all possible, you must get help for your MIL so that you can spend time with your Mom. It is a priority, and I think you would regret it terribly if something happened and you hadn't been able to spend as much time with her as you wished.

    It's sooooooo hard, isn't it :cry: .

    Love and strength to you,

    Karen

  6. Dear Fay

    I'm so glad that you continue to come on board and share your wisdom with all of us.....we are indeed a very fortunate bunch!

    Thank you for allowing us to continue to walk with you on this journey.

    Love always,

    Karen

  7. Hi Sherri

    Sorry to hear that a brain met has developed. Brain mets tend to respond quite well to radiation, and I would guess that if your Dad's cancer has previously had a good response when treated with radiation, there is reason to be very hopeful.

    Tarceva does apparently cross the blood-brain barrier. I would presume that your Dad could still receive Tarceva, as the brain met was in all likelihood already there when he started the drug.

    Hope that helps, and all the best to you and your family....

    Karen

  8. To dear Fay

    I am so saddened to read this post....For your sake, I wish you were at home with your family (including the four-legged members!) where you belong.

    But, as Sharon has said, memories can be made anywhere. It is the love that we remember, not the room that it happened in.....

    Thank you for always giving of yourself so freely - your wisdom and generosity of spirit have helped me innumerable times.

    I wish for you peaceful and loving days ahead....

    Please know that I am sending much love your way.

    Karen

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