My mom is having a brain scan today. I've been reading online about life expectancy with brain mets and no treatment. Seems like we might be looking at no more than 3 months left now? 'm going to the oncologist appt with my mom and dad Tomorrow to talk about results of brain scan and prognosis. I'm scared but trying very hard to stay calm. I'm trying to get a lot of work done now so I can free up time as the weeks progress.
From what I've read, with brain mets (untreated)things can really deteriorate, as in loss of speech, movement, bladder/bowel control. I really don't want to see my mom that way, but I know it's out of my hands. The family was all together this weekend. My mom is so emotionally strong, I can't believe it!!! SHE reminds US to take it one day at a time! She is so matter-of-fact about stuff, and does not express fear. she is just trying to get things organized for her death and the holidays (from her bed). She has been very religious her whole life, so I'm sure she does not fear death. I'm sad for my dad b/c as he watches his wife die, he's learning how to cook for himself and do laundry for the first time. He has to bring her food, etc. Thank God hospice will help her with bathing, dressing, etc.
Thanks for letting me ramble! God bless,
Beth