teriw Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I too have something that was passed out at a grief group. Usually I don't like the poems they distribute, because I find them too depressing and hopeless. This isn't a poem, but I found it very true. It validates common feelings, and can help others understand a bit better. Grieving My Way I believe grief is a process that involves a lot of time, energy and determination. I won't get over it in a hurry, so don't rush me. I believe grief is intensely personal. This is my grief. Don't tell me how I should be doing it. Don't tell me what's right or wrong. I'm doing it my way, in my time. I believe grief is affecting me in many ways. I am being affected spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially and mentally. If I am not acting like my old self, it's because I'm not my old self and some days I don't understand myself. I believe I am being changed by this process. I see life differently. Some things that were once important to me aren't anymore. There are some things I used to pay little or no attention to that are now important. I believe I will be affected in some way by this loss for the rest of my life. As I get older, I will have new insights into what this death means to me. My loved one will continue to be part of my life and influence me until the day I die. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 That one was Right on the Money Teri!! Pretty much describes everything in a nut shell! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomadawn Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Teri, Thanks for sharing this, it quite simple but so true. I found it quite comforting and calming to read. I am sure many will be helped by those words. Thanks again & God bless Debbie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Boy is that true! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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