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  1. Oh my God, Fay. You must be insane. I know mistakes happen, but wow! Pretty scary mistake. Thank goodness they caught it!! Imagine if they hadn't. I'm so glad to hear your OK. So much sad new lately on the boards; we do need a lot of good to balance it. Praying for the best.

    Annie

  2. Connie, I am so sorry to hear about you dear mom. She is at peace now and has no more pain. She will watch over you for the rest of your life. I hope this will be of some small comfort to you as you go through these difficult weeks ahead. You and your family and in my prayers.

    Annie

  3. Cathy, I'm so sorry about your wonderful dad. My heart breaks for you and your family. I will be praying for peace for him, like Katie, either feeling better (doctors don't know everything), or going to heaven. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Annie

  4. Hi, welcome to the boards. Sorry to hear about your husband. My husband, Tim had his left lung removed and they had to remove his recurrent nerve to his vocal cord. There are two, one on each side and they run down into your chest and then back up to your cords. If a tumor is compressing this nerve, it can also cause hoarsness. Tim had a lymph node that was enlarged and somehow was stuck to this nerve.

    He will be going to see an ear, nose and throat doc to have an injection of Teflon into his vocal cords to help with his voice. His is hoarse, weak and kind of phelmy. I hope they can help make it stronger.

    I hope this helps. I had no idea that this could happen during the surgery, but there are so many things in the chest area, it was a small price to pay to remove the cancer.

    Annie

  5. Another route that might be helpful-get your congressman (person) or represenitive's office working on your side. They all have people who help their constituants with government redtape. See if it helps.

    Annie

  6. Gee, Connie-I'm with everyone else. Shocked and dismayed that one of longest term survivors and our best cheerleader has this happening. :(

    This d_mn disease!! When will it stop!! I know you can beat this because you have about 500 people pulling for you and sending up prayers.

    Annie

  7. Welcome Muriel. My husband's disease was a bit further along than yours, but my opinion is go for the chemo. You can never go back if things turn sour and you should do everything you can to make sure you say cancer free--what a nice ring that has!

    Tim's chemo before his surgery was not too bad. His nasuea was controlled by pills, he didn't lose any hair and he gained a needed 15 pounds. The chemo he is having after his surgery-which is stronger-is depressing his blood counts. He had two treatments and had to have 4 units of blood because his red cell count was way down. All these things can be dealt with. He still has no nasuea, but is tired. I just figure it means the chemo is working. Good luck and keep posting.

    Annie

  8. Janice, why would anyone think you should act like nothing has changed? Your whole world has changed and will never be the same. It's a scary and horrible ride, but certianly one that can be won!! Just read some of the posts on this board and it will fill you with hope. There is some much good information and advice here.

    Do you have good doctors? You need to have an oncologist you can talk to and relate to. Your job is to get your husband the very best care you can find and take good care of him. It will bring you a sense of peace because you are being proactive and doing all that you can to help him fight. Good luck and keep us informed on you progress!

    Annie

  9. GNC (if you have one in your area) has a powder that weight lifters use called Weight Gain 2200. It has 2200 calories in 3 scoops-lots of protein and vitamins-and Tim really likes the taste. You can mix it with milk or in a shake and it comes in a few flavors. If you mix all 3 scoops in one glass-use a blender-it's a bit thick, but you can water it down or just add more milk and make it 2 meals.

    Annie

  10. Hope Lucie is feeling better. That's a long hospital stay and I hope she can come home soon. Try to rest up a bit while they take good care of her. I know that's easier said than done. Have a nice glass of wine in the evening. :? Of course prayers are on the way.

    Annie

  11. Hey, Tim. I have a Tim too. I wish you would join us here, there is so much good information, support, laughs. I don't know what I would have done if I hadn't found all these people!

    Decadron can make people very emotional. Our doc told us about one of his patients who was weeding his garden and crying because he was killing the weeds! He said he knew is was silly, but he just couldn't stop feeling sorry for them. :lol:

    Please just take a quick look at the site.

    Annie

  12. My husband has had two treatments of Gemzar/Carbo. He was having shortness of breath and was lightheaded. I thought it might be side effects of other drugs he was taking.

    It was his low red blood cell count. He went in for labs and it was down to 2.7. :shock: They were surprised he could still stand up. He got 4 units of packed red cells and feels much better.

    Not sure if that is your dad's problem, but worth checking.

    Annie

  13. Thought you all might enjoy this!!

    After 17 years of marriage, a man dumped his wife for a younger woman. The

    downtown luxury apartment was in his name and he wanted to remain there

    with his new love, so he asked the wife to move out and then he would buy her another place.

    The wife agreed to this, but asked that she be given 3 days on her own

    there, to pack up her things. While he was gone, the first day she lovingly

    put her personal belongings into boxes and crates and suitcases. On the

    second day, she had the movers come and collect her things. On the third

    day, she sat down for the last time at their candlelit Dining table, soft

    music playing in the background, and feasted on a pound of shrimp and a

    bottle of chardonnay. When she had finished, she went into each room and

    deposited a few of the resulting shrimp shells into the hollow of the

    curtain rods. She then cleaned up the kitchen and left.

    The husband came back, with his new girl, and all was bliss for the first

    few days. Then it started; slowly but surely. Clueless, the man could not

    explain why the place smelled so bad. They tried everything; cleaned &

    mopped and aired the place out. Vents were checked for dead rodents,

    carpets were steam cleaned, Air fresheners were hung everywhere. Exterminators were brought in, the carpets were replaced, and on it went. Finally, they could take it no more and decided to move. The Moving

    company arrived and did a very professional packing job, taking everything

    to their new home.

    ....including the curtain rods....

  14. Brother Ray,

    Isn't it great to have positive doctors. Makes all the difference in the world that they have faith that they can cure you. I'm so happy that the news has gone from not to good to very good. :D:D

    Annie

  15. Rick, how awful for Katie after being our cheerleader all this time. She has changed my attitude a few times over the last few months; but this must be very hard for her. Jessie is a fighter and has come back from adversity before and can do it again.

    Please know that we are praying for all of you and keeping good thoughts headed toward Texas.

    Annie

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