Izzy
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Hi everyone, just checking in on you all, I hope all is good for you, my niece was diagnosed with kidney cancer recently so another hurdle hits me, she had her kidney removed and she is on immunotherapy so everything xd, she’s only 44, I hope you all have a great Christmas and new year, and sending you all love and hugs and loads of positivity, best wishes Izzy xxx
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I’m so sorry to hear about your niece Izzy and I hope she is doing well in her recovery from surgery and treatment. I pray you had a merry Christmas and that the new year is treating you well so far. I know these first holidays without your son are the hardest but time will dull the ache. Thinking of you.
Pam
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Thanks Pam , yeah it’s still so very raw, I miss him more than words can say, I have a special place in my home for him, and a tree in the garden where I’ve placed some of his ashes, I just pray for the day I feel a bit better, hope your ok, thanks for your response, I still think about you all and pray your all doin ok, have a great new year, love Izzy xxx 😘
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Hi all, just checking how your all doing, sincerely hope your all ok, things still very raw here , my daughter in law and 4 four grandchildren have fallen out with me and Micky (Jus’s sister) and her two children, it’s heartbreaking 💔We’ve been denied any of his ashes so have nothing to show he ever existed for 52 years except photos and memories , still that’s not why I’ve posted, I check up on you all regularly as Jus would have wanted me too as this place was very special to him as you all were too, I hope life’s treating you all as well as it can, I’m hoping that we will both feel better one day but I’m not holding out much hope, he was such a special person to us as we were and are a very close unit, the hole we now have in our hearts is immeasurable but the love carries on and will never die, take care of yourselves and keep those loved ones close, love and hugs to you all and keep up that wonderful strength you all have, catch up again soon Xx love Izzy xx
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It hurts me to hear of the conflict with your daughter in law and grandchildren. I am truly sorry you are going thru this and pray that time will remedy the situation and turn it around. I have been thinking of you and Justin and wondering how you were coping. He is missed dearly as he always was so encouraging to all even when his treatment was so tough on himself. Sending hugs to you and please keep up your strength to get thru the grieving of the loss of your incredible son.
Pam
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Thanks Pam, Jus would be mortified at it all, we are such a strong close unit and it’s heartbreaking, I miss him so so much and now don’t even have his children to help me through it, I hope your doing ok Jus loved this forum and all of you in it, he loved being supportive and trying to help kept him going, thanks for your kind words it really means a lot, take care and keep fighting, love and hugs xxx Izzy xxx
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@Izzy how very sad to hear that you have this to cope with on top of the terrible grief. It is kind of you to check in. I am doing very well after major surgery, and at least for now am cancer free, so making the most of it.
I sincerely hope that you and your daughter-in-law can find a way through this as it just seems too much to bear. All the best, Rikke x
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Hi everyone, just checking in on you all, hope things are going well for you all, still very sad here, beginning to think I’ll never feel any better, things are still rough here and I miss Jus so very much , life is just so hard without him, take care of yourselves and keep fighting no one wins if they give up, thinking of you all a great deal, hang in there, love Izzy xxx
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Hi Izzy! So glad to hear an update from you though my heart breaks for your loss still. I often think of you and Justin,I hope he is soaring in some other dimension somewhere in the vast universe. It must be the hardest of all losses to lose one's child no matter at what age but I pray that your pain eases at some point and you can find some joy in Justin's kids and the great memories you made for decades. I get melancholic often but remind myself that every human will die so revert to trying to make the best of whatever time I have left in this life. Hugs and please keep in touch if it is not distressing for you to do so.
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Hi everyone, not posted for a while but just wanted to say that Jus’ my son is doing really well, it’s been such a difficult road to travel but I feel we are definitely getting somewhere now, he has had some really good results with the tumour shrinking and the gamma knife doing it’s job, and I feel he is in a better place than he was, but it is still very difficult as the stress fear and pain never leaves you. I follow your posts and am so proud of you all and the way you deal with this terrible card you’ve all been dealt, we are a very close family and Justin’s pain is our pain but together we can get thro this, it’s strength in numbers I say !! I am so very proud of you Jus, couldn’t ask for a better son than you and I love you very much, we will beat this together, Best wishes and hope you all get some good positive results, lots of love Isla xx
