Thanks Katie, I truly appreciate 99.9% of this community. You and so many here have been a Dodsend. Not only in the support received, but seeing all the bravery from each helps keeps one grounded that we are not alone, not the worse off, we are a community bent on survival.
But along with others who have received poison PMs, I don't like receiving thinly veiled "curses" in my PM from a member. I don't like that she can refer to our support of each other as a "pity party" or say our cancers are the result of our "nastiness" and sucking on those "cancer sticks" and still remain a member.
If her remarks were limited to me alone it would not be a problem. I'm too clueless to be offended by anyone. But she has spit at every member that addresses her. At this point in our lives I think it is safe to assume we don't need her animosity and curses against us.
Yet the only thing done about it is to remove the negative comments people have made against her at her request.
Again, I love this place and admire what you have done here. I just don't need to keep an open PM door to this type of animosity from one deviant. The PM is her only connection with us. I guess I want to break that channel. I have a cancer to fight and don't need to expend my energy on her issues.