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    in INTRODUCE YOURSELF!

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    Hi Cheryl,

    Welcome to the board, sorry you have to be here. But you will find wonderful supportive people here with lots of information. My mom was diagnosed in March with Stage IIIB NSCLC. It was a very difficult time, because I felt so overwhelmed, lost and didn't even know where to start. I was researching the web and became depressed with the statistics I read. Then I found this site and it has been a God send.

    My mom was unable to have surgery. She underwent 33 daily radiation treatments and has had 8 chemo (carbo/taxol) treatments. The doctor says she will have around 12 probably. The CT scans show her cancer is shrinking. We remain hopeful for a complete remission. If I can offer you any advice, be very vigilant in your husband's care and never give up hope!

    Come here whenever you have questions or need support. You will be in my prayers.

    2 Down and ONLY 1 to go

    in GENERAL

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    Ginny, thanks for sharing the update on Earl and yourself. It continues to give me hope. I am happy to hear that all is going well and that Earl with have a bit of a reprieve from all the doctor visits. Enjoy the summer. I will keep you in my prayers for continued good news. All my best.

    Head in the Sand

    in GENERAL

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    Hi All,

    I haven't posted in a while. I have felt like denial is serving me well lately. I feel like I want to bury my head in the sand and pretend everything is okay. We have gotten good news lately, but can't help but feeling like I am just waiting for the other shoe to drop. Normally, I am pretty positive and strong...but don't feel like that lately.

    I am very thankful for the good news we have received...the cancer in my mom's lymph nodes has continued to shrink. The cancer in her lung is contained in a "cavity"...the doctor says the cavity itself has not shrunk since the last CT scan, but he said it doesn't mean the cancer itself isn't shrinking. Has anyone heard of this? He said it is good news, because it hasn't grown and there is no cancer present elsewhere, yeah!!!!! She has developed a cough, but her doctor said this could also be from fluid building up in the cavity where the cancer had been present.

    Also, my dad's CT scan from the liver cancer came back clean. There is no additional cancer present (after the surgery) and it appears the blood supply has been completely cut off to the original tumor.

    Overall, the news is terrific. I think I am emotionally tired from the roller coaster ride I call cancer and from the waiting on test results.

    I keep everyone in my prayers. I wish I had a magical pill to wipe away everyone's suffering. You are all such wonderful people.

    The News!!

    in HOPE

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    Shelly,

    That is GREAT news!!!! I have been thinking about you and your mom a lot and praying for great news. I am so very happy for you!!!!! Enjoy and take some time for you too. All my best.

    Need some advice/experience

    in GENERAL

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    Hi Carleen,

    I am so sorry you have to go through this stress! I know the stress of this damn disease makes me feel like I am losing my mind. Somedays I want to disappear and pretend it doesn't exist. It would be great for you to find a friend or confidante that you could cry and talk to and not have to put on a strong face for. I cry to my husband on the tough days and it helps me a lot. The effects of going through this are heartbreaking.

    My mom begun radiation and then a few weeks later started chemo and had them both in conjunction for about 4 weeks. Now she is only doing chemo. The main effect of doing both for her was that it dropped her white blood cell counts too low to receive chemo. Overall though, she handled both of them together pretty well. Her throat was very sore from a burnt esophagus.

    I pray that the radiation will bring Keith some relief and that the cancer is also being killed. I wish I could also say the magic words and make it all better for you. Not having control is so difficult. Please know that you are not alone. You are in my thoughts.

    Mets To Lymph Nodes in Pelvic - Need You Input

    in NSCLC GROUP

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    Alyse,

    I am so sorry to hear about your husband's cancer spreading. My mom's cancer spread to lymph nodes in her chest area. I had read other people having surgery and didn't understand why my mom couldn't have it either. We got a second opinion and he explained it clearly to me. Mostly (a few other reasons too) it was because the surgery would postpone her being able to have chemo and radiation. She has completed radiation and it has been very successful. She is halfway through chemo and it is working too. I would seek a second opinion if you are not happy with his doctor's opinion. Also, don't rule out the success of radiation, check into this as well. All my best to you.

    Update on Lucie

    in NSCLC GROUP

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    Thanks for the update on Lucie, Don! I am glad she seems to be feeling better and that you got a much deserved massage. Easier said then done, but try not to spend time on the "what ifs". Enjoy this time. I wish you both the best!

    How I'm doing...

    in HOPE

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    Shannon, I am continued to be admired by your strength and courage. You are a wonderful inspiration to others. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Mike is definitely watching over you. All my best. Andrea

    Mike' gone home

    in GENERAL

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    Oh Shannon, I have tears running down my face...I am so very sorry for your loss. Over the past months, I feel privileged to have gotten to know you and Mike through your stories and you both are such inspirations to me. May you find peace in your memories and know that Mike will forever be watching over you. I can't begin to tell you how much I admire your courage. You will be in my prayers.

    regarding my mom

    in GENERAL

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    Shelly, I am so very sorry for what you are going through. I don't think you should feel bad at all about showing your mom your feelings. You love her tremendously and that is evident. I know it is easier said than done, but don't feel bad about what happened in the past...that is exactly what it is...the past. Hold on to today and make the most of it. I know how you feel about your mom being your best friend and you would take her place by going first. I have had these same thoughts. I have days where getting out of bed and greeting the world is tough. I hate every aspect of this disease, but I especially hate how it has turned my life upside down. I haven't posted much myself lately, because I feel I am turning to denial to get through some days. Please know that you aren't alone. You can always send me a PM. I keep you and your mom in my prayers. Thinking of you and sending a hug.

    New Jay

    in GENERAL

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    Jay, nice to hear from you and that is a great picture! Once again I am so sorry for the loss of your mom and for all that you have been through. My heart goes out to you. As far as chemo, I am sure you will handle things well with the immense strength you have shown already. I wish you all the best and will keep you in my prayers.

    Dads cat scan result, not good

    in NSCLC GROUP

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    Deb, I am so very sorry to hear about your dad. I will be praying for him, you and your family. You all seem to have an amazing strength and attitude. I am sorry you have to go through all this. I wish there was something more I could say to make you feel better. Please lean on everyone here when needed. I will be thinking of you. Take care of yourself.

    Frustrations

    in GENERAL

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    Shannon, please don't quit posting updates! I enjoy reading them and they always provide me with hope and inspiration.

    I think people sometimes say things out of ignorance or they may have the best of intentions and don't know how/what to say. I have "close" friends who have made comments that make my jaw drop. However, if I had people who only knew me through cyberspace making those comments I would cease to communicate with them.

    You and Mike are amazing people and you know what is best. Please do keep us updated. As always you are in my prayers.

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