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Dean and Howard,
Thank you both for posting. It is so important for the rest of us to know how you are both doing.
Your courage and dignity and grace in dealing with this monster is incrediable. May we all learn from your examples of how to LIVE each day.
You are in my prayers.
Shirleyb
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Berisa,
Hold on to your faith. It is what will get you through each day and every trial that you face. The path you are walking will have it's ups and downs, but keep you faith strong.
Try and enjoy your holiday with your family. You all need each other. Good luck on the job search.
Love,
Shirleyb
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Ginny,
You sure have a full plate. I am so sorry to hear all that has happened to those you love. Know that you are in my prayers. I do hope that Earl starts to feel better soon.
Love ya girl. Know that you are a very special lady to many.
Shirleyb
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Cathy,
I can totally identify with what you are saying. The sadness is overwhelming at times and then the anger sets in. I keep wondering when it will end. I know why I am angry and that is a whole other story, but the sadness is never ending. I know in time it will ease and I will have good days, just as you will too, but it takes time. So, just keep putting one foot in front of the other and do what you can and accept that what you are going through is oh so normal. You loved your dad so much. It took me over a year to feel happy again after my dad died, so I know getting over Randy will take that long if not longer. That is just the way it is.
Just keep on keeping on........you are not alone hon.
Take care.
Love
Shirleyb
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Shelley,
So glad to hear that your hubby is going to be okay and that this is not a life threatening thing. It is a pain to be sure, but it is doable. Some more life adjustments are coming your way. It is good that the sun is shining on you and him with this. Thank God for some favors.
Take care dear girl.
Shirleyb
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Shirley,
First, congratulations on the Relay. What a wonderful experience for you.
Second, as a 5 time knee surgery patient, I know that once the surgery is done, you will probably walk out of the OR. It is that fast. Just take it easy on the leg...it does take some time and the swelling and bandages are hugh, but it goes away quiet fast. You will do well, just take the time to let it heal. Maybe now would be a good time to get one of the kids to move the computer for you. Stairs can be a challenge.
I hope you are up and around soon. Take care of yourself. I am glad this happened after the Relay and not before.
Best wishes on your recovery.
Shirley
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Peg,
Some how by the grace of God, we survive.
We cry, we pray, we scream, we put one foot in front of the other and we go on.
We each take this path in it's own direction. We each have a different path to follow. For some, the path is easier than for others. We each grieve those we have lost in our own way and in our own time.
I have found it amazing though to be able to come to this section and be able to post and know there are several other wonderful womenand men who are walking this path too. We are here for each other. I thank Norme for posting what she did. She said it so very well.
I am so truely sorry. I pray to God for comfort, for peace for my soul, for healing of my heart. I pray for acceptance and forgiveness. I pray for each of those here that suffer. And I say a special prayer for those of us who are hurting so badly and missing our loves.
Take the time you need to greive, there is no time limit. Come here and let us know how you are doing. There are so many good people here who do understand and know that you need a safe place to go. And no, you are not loosing it. The roller coast has not come to a complete stop yet. You are not alone in this Peg.
Shirley
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Kris,
Your dad is here. Sometimes it takes finding that place within yourself to be calm for him to come through. I think said is best though.
I am sorry you are in such pain.
You are in my prayers.
Shirleyb
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Debbie,
I am so sorry that Chris had to go. It is the worst nightmare that we go through losing those we love so much.
I am so sorry.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Shirleyb
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Abby,
My heart goes out to you and to the rest of us that have lost our partners. I never would have thought that this would be my place in life at this time in my life either. It all happened way to fast and too soon for any of us.
Know that what you are going through, we have gone through it too and are still trying to get through. We do understand only too well what you are saying. The idea of moving on each day without our loves is like a nightmare. For me it was wondering if Randy knew how much I truely loved him. My foster daughter was the one who answered that for me. She told me she had never seen any two people more devoted to each other, willing to do whatever we could for each other than Randy and I were. I am sure it was the same for you too. And for the rest of those here, Glo, Ann, Peg, Collen, Candy, Norme, and so many more. Like so many have said, it is a pain that we never truely heal from. We just adjust. Accepting that those we love will never be here again is probably the hardest thing to acknowledge. Yes they are with us in spirit and they do send us signs that they are still with us, but what I wouldn't give to be able to touch him once more. To look into his eyes and see the love.
My prayers are for all of us to find that peace that God will give us and the strength to get through each day with a little less of the acute pain we all feel. Some days will be better than others, just know you are not alone and we are all here to support one another through this journey we call life. Without each of you, I know I would not be able to cope as well as I do. It is your love and strenght that allows me to feel like I am not alone.
Abby, keep in touch with us.
Be kind to yourself and know you are needed still.
Much love,
Shirleyb
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I am so sorry to hear about your mom.
May God bless you and may the good memories of your mother give you comfort.
Shirleyb
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Berisa,
I am so saddened to hear about your dad. He fought a good fight with you at his side cheering him on to win all the way.
My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family to find peace. God has another angel at His side. May he watch over you always. I know your father was and still is so very proud of you for being the person you are.
Shirleyb
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Pam,
You and your family are in my prayers. I know what you mean about the pain and sadness that still is there. I wonder some days if it will ever go away. When my father died, it took me a good two years before I felt like I could talk about him and not cry. I still miss him to this day. I just know that he and Randy are together and that does give me some comfort but it doesn't ease the missing of seeing their smiling faces.
Take care of yourself.
Love,
Shirleyb
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I for one am glad you had a good night. It is amazing what life is like without pain. I hope it stays that way for you and that the radiation works well on getting those pesky tumors under control so they will leave.
Good luck for another day feeling good.
Shirleyb
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Thank you so kindly for this very profound reminder.
I have to tell you though Becky, I have a great deal of admiration and gratitude for you. Thank you for posting and sharing as much as you do. You truely are an inspiration.
Much love,
Shirleyb
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Shellie,
You and your dear husband are in my prayers. I think Fay is the one who asked, but could he have come in contact with some kind of poison either at work or at home. Some of the yard stuff now a days is pretty toxic if not used properly. Has he been checked for lyme disease? One of the guys I used to work with had similar symptoms and that is what they finally figured out was causing it.
I hope and pray you get answers soon.
Let us know how you both are soon.
Shirleyb
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Shirley, the lovely wife of Sam,
I would be honored if you were to use Randy's picture.
Thank you so much for doing what you are doing.
Shirleyb
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One of my girlfriends got us tickets to go see him when he is here in June. I have read a number of his books and had a few of those experiences in the past myself. Some don't believe in what he does, but I have had experiences in the past that give me reason to believe that someone else would have them too. It is hard to explain.
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KC,
I do understand what you are saying. Our lives go on but yet those we love so much are not here to be with us. Can this be real????
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My Beloved
in GRIEF
Peg,
There is nothing in the world that each of us would not do willingly for our loved ones not to lose this battle.
Words cannot express the profound sense of loss at this time. Take time for yourself, honor your love for Bill and keep it close to your heart. Praise his name and speak of him to all those that listen.
I wish I didn't know what you are going through, but like some of the others here, I do know and my heartfelt prayers are for you to feel comfort. Reach out to us when you need to. I know the others here on this board have given me so much strength and acceptance in my time of pain and sorrow and we will help you too.
Your loss is ours. If there is anything I could do or say right now to make this easier for you I would. Words are not enough.
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
May God keep Bill safe, may you feel His love always.
Shirleyb
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Norme,
Ann said it best, but I too have had those experiences where I just know that Randy was right there with me.
Like my signature says, keep your eyes open....miracles do happen.
Love you,
Shirley
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TBone,
I hope that you are going to get good results from your scan. I pray for you and your family. Especially your wife who loves you so.
The courage and faith that you and your entire family show here is incredible.
May God grant you many days ahead to enjoy them.
Much love,
Shirley
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Fay,
I hope all went well yesterday. You have been in my thoughts and prayers the last few days.
I pray that you get what you need to beat this beast.
Much love and warm hugs girl,
Shirley
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What a wonderful and touching tribute to your uncle. Your love is shining through each and every words. Keep sharing.
Much love,
Shirley
another birthday
in GRIEF
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Shordy,
May you have a blessed birthday.
My kids have had their first birthday's without their dad. It was hard for them too but the day passes and life goes on. Like they have said, they think about their dad everyday and there is just no way to get over missing him.
I am glad your husband and step-mom understand.
Take care and enjoy the day. It is the anniversary of one of the happiest day's in your dad's life. You were born to them and what a blessing that has been.
Love,
Shirleyb