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  1. Barbara,

    I am so sorry that things are so hard. It just isn't fair that we have to go through this. You have every right to be scared. Cancer robs from us the normalcy that we had lived our lives with. We didn't know it was normal, until cancer reared it's ugly head and let us know.

    We are here for you. I pray that scar tissue is what it is.

    Blessings,

    Jen

  2. So here is my two cents...

    Weight gain after chemo, in my opinion is great. (Read Don's post about skinny cows and not-so-skinny ones!!)

    My dad has been struggling with his back, and his doc has looked everywhere, to no avail. He has gained back a bit of weight, but not too much...and the doc thinks it is that, with the sitting around that he does and the not-working of his back muscles.

    It is normal to be scared, but as Geri says, scared gets you nowhere....easier said of course!

    Blessings and prayers.

    Jen

  3. Oh my gosh. Your plate is so, so full right now. Please try to find help as you have so much to worry about and to pray about at this time.

    You have my prayers. Please know you can always come here to vent...that is what we are for!

    Jen

  4. Vernon,

    Keep that chin up, as you will find so many who have lived and lived and lived! My dad is one of those...we are two years in, with no current sign of disease, when his original diagnosis was 2 - 6 months!

    I am a prayer, so I believe in that...I will say one for you too!

    Jen

  5. This was a beautiful post by Bill. I was ALWAYS so struck by his use of the English language, and the dance he could create with his words.

    He is missed. Teri, may you find peace.

    Blessings,

    Jen

  6. I cannot tell you loud enough that you need to get a second opinion. I truly believe that some docs go by stats and have little hope, and I do believe there is a ton of hope out there. It breaks my heart to think of you losing it.

    You are responding well to treatment, and that is a HUGE bonus! My dad did the same and he keeps on going!

    Bless you always,

    Jen

  7. Geri,

    You are the best. You, of course, have my positive thoughts, prayers, and good vibes! I agree with some of the other posts...have someone check in with us...as we will be thinking of you!

    Jen

  8. Someday you may realize that even that crapping dog may have been the sign! There are so many here who have been fortunate enough to get those signs, while others are still searching.

    Be open to it. It might still come.

    Blessings,

    Jen

  9. Paper,

    Check out my dad's story! It is one I LOVE to share...though we were lucky that dad's was not extensive. However, I do know that Don from Texas had a brain met (if I remember correctly) and did cyberknife.

    There is just SO MUCH hope out there.

    Give mom my prayers,

    Jen

  10. Carrie,

    We are now into Monday. How are the platelets? How is mom feeling? I still want you to know that if there is anything I can do, I am more than willing. How are you on meals? How is dad doing? How are your sisters? What about your kids? If you need me to watch them, let me know, so that hubby can go with you. I mean it, Carrie, anything.

    Prayers,

    Jen

  11. Nova,

    I have been through the wringer with these very same questions! I do know this...any conversation with God is better than no conversation at all.

    I remember being really mad at God, :( when dad was diagnosed, my daughter was a preemie, and then had all day every day colic....I asked a friend (a nun, by the way) why God would do this. What had I done to deserve all of this? :shock: I told her, to be honest, that I was just mad at Him. She laughed, and told me, "That's OK, God can handle it. In fact, He kind of likes it that you are mad at Him, at least then you are admitting that He is in control."

    Now, I don't know how far I would go with this one, but I will say that I do think that God is wanting your prayer, wanting your engagement, and therefore, those little prayers, as long as they are heartfelt, are great.

    Thank you for those prayers, and please know you have my own as well! :D

    Blessings,

    Jen

  12. I am glad to read that you are going to try to push the issue. You just never know. It sucks though. Stay strong and when you have done your very best, and your mom and docs have done all that can be done, you either know the miracle of healing, or you know you have solace in the fact that everything was done that can be done.

    Again, my prayers.

    Jen

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