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Mendy

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  1. I didn't read if you are doing this cold turkey or using some kind of replacement. If the urges get too overwhelming, rather than give in I recommend that you use nicotine replacement. Try a patch. 14 mg took away any urges and irratibility I experienced. We are all behind you and rooting you on.

    Way to go!

    Mendy

  2. Mike,

    I'm so glad you received great news. Have a great spring and summer and I hope the next round brings you the same results. I love news like yours.

    Mendy

  3. Sharon, I am sorry that you still have a battle on your hands. I am praying that this next round will be highly effective. Hang in there and enjoy your Easter weekend with your grandkids. I hope the Easter bunny will leave you a special treat.

    Mendy

  4. My husband complained that he had some pain but it wasn't enough for him to seek any pain relief. For him, it was worth it because his blood counts were never off and he didn't suffer from any of the illnesses the kids brought home during his chemo treatments.

    Mendy

  5. This is not an easy surgery to recover from. Make sure you take your pain meds for some relief. They will help you breathe easier. Unfortunately, you will probably continue to experience the tingling, maybe even some numbness in the area of surgery. My husband had a whole lobe removed and still continues to have sharp stabbing pains and tells me that when he wakes up he always feels like someone has been sitting on his chest. Others say the pain gets better but it takes a long time. Be patient, you have had a serious surgery. I sure hope you don't have any more complications.

    Mendy

  6. There have been many times that I have wanted to post about being frustrated but have refrained because I didn't want to whine when it is my husband who is fighting for his life but...after 7 months of surgery, chemo, and radiation I am tired.

    It wouldn't be so bad to work and take care of dh and the house but when a 3 year old and a 5 year old are added into the mix I am just worn out. There have been some days that are better than others when my dh feels energetic enough to help around the house or take a turn reading the kids their bedtime stories but those days haven't been here in a while. He finished the 33 radiation treatments a couple of weeks ago and his energy still hasn't returned. Add to the mix that it looks like he won't have a job to return to. I know he is frustated as well. Hopefully life will return to something resembling normalacy in a few weeks and he will find a job.

    I'm sorry to complain when we are very lucky that there is not cancer showing at this point.

    Thanks for listening/reading.

    Mendy

  7. That is great news. I looking forward to reading about a great pathology report. If you have trouble lying down to sleep, try a recliner chair so you can sleep in a semi upright position. It will relieve the pressure from lying down.

    May you have a speedy recovery.

    Mendy

  8. Congratulations! It is so much fun having sonograms and getting a peek at your little one. Boys are very special (much to my suprise and delight :lol: ). My mom didn't like the name Isabel and didn't hesitate to tell me. I told her she had her fun picking out names with us and that it was my turn. She has learned to like it and calls my daughter Belle. Take good care of yourself and don't overdo it.

    Mendy

  9. I would say it took at least four months for me to come to grips with my husband's diagnosis. It really is like having a new normal. I will admit that there are times when I think back to how carefree we were before we knew he had cancer and when he is really tired from treatments I sometimes feel like I miss my bestfriend and partner even though he is only upstairs in bed. For me,it is getting better as time goes on and he is doing well but I know the fear will always be lurking around the corner.

    I hope you are able to develop a new normal and be able to live life that includes enjoyable times.

    Mendy

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