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Nicole,
Sorry to hear about the tumor growth for your mom. Saying a prayer that they find the right chemo cocktail and it knocks that tumor right out of there.
Susan
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Great to hear from you Dawn! I'm sorry it has been so rough. Isn't it just the way that good news is always accompanied by a new challenge (e.g. your car). I know you will have a good scan in Jan. but let us know so we can all celebrate with you.
Susan
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Jassen,
I am so sorry you are in this situation with your mother. It is never easy, but she is so lucky to have you to make sure she does not suffer. I've been where you are and it is not a good place to be. You just have to know you are making the best decisions you can with the information you have. That is all you can do. I know it doesn't feel like it is enough, but for your mom it is everything. She knows you love her and want the best for her.
Susan
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Sue--sending prayers for another NED report!
Susan
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Ginny,
I'm so sorry. Sending prayers for him and his family.
Susan
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Jassen,
I understand as I have been there. It's an increadibly diccucult position to be in. Your mother is lucky to have both you and your wife advocating and caring for her. Stick to your guns about making sure her wishes are honored.
Check with hospice organizations in your area. Some will allow patients to be undergoing palliative treatment (e.g. treatment with the intent to lessen pain and/or improve the quality of life as opposed to curing the diease) while enrolled in hospice. It sure sounds like you and your wife could use the support provided by hospice.
Susan
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Heidi--you have my prayers! I hope it is NOT cancer and something that can be easily treated.
Susan
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Hi Creature,
There are lots of us rabid cancer fighters here. We will help you in any way we can.
Susan
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Hi Indy,
We can help provide better support if you will tell us a little but about yourself. There are lots of people here with extensive knowledge and experience with lung cancer so we are glad to help in any way we can.
Susan
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I am so sorry to read the news about your husband. I, like others, urge you to get hospice involved as quickly as possible. They help not just the patient, but the entire family.
Susan
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Jassen,
I'm sorry to hear of your mother's situation. Having recently been in your shoes I will tell you all you can do is all you can do. Ned's advice is good. Get away somewhere and scream, cry and let your emotions out. You have to take care of yourself in order to function for your mother and your family.
We are here for you when you need us.
Susan
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Oh no. Rest in peace, far from the reach of the cancer Lilly. My prayers go out to her family and friends, especially her children.
Susan
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Jassen,
I'm sorry to read about your mother's dx, but so glad you have found us. I've been where you are. The shock and pain at the new dx is normal. You've gotten good responses from others about the side effects of the radiation. The good thing is that many of the side effects are temporary. The fatigue is certainly one that should get better once the radiation is complete.
We are here for you. Not just for information about your mom, but to help you as well. Come here with any questions or just to vent. We understand.
Susan
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Ronnie,
Saturday morning I poured myself a cup of coffee and then realized that on Saturdays I would pour myself a cup and call mom for a long conversation. Needless to say, I lost it then and pratty much bawled my way through the morning.
You are not alone.
Susan
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Katy,
After watching my mom's final days and hours, it is comforting to know that she is now beyond the reach of cancer. I hope you find it comforting as well.
How are you doing?
Susan
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Sandi, It sounds like you are doing really well. Chemo is never fun, but when you find out it is manageable, it becomes a lot less scary. Keep us posted.
Susan
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Ronnie, As others have let you know, you are not alone in this. I've been grieving less than a month, but some days all I can think about is mom's last night and morning. You are not alone.
Susan
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Tony--not the best news, but we have many long-term stage IV survivors. Radiation then chemo is a good plan. Radiation help get those nasty mets and then the chemo comes in for the rest. Attitude is half the battle and I'd say you've won that half already!
Susan
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Love the GREAT news!!!!!
Susan
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Kristin,
I'm so sorry to read this news. It is so hard to lose a parent. I'm right here with you.
Susan
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Katy,
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Susan
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Hi Smitti
I see you've gotten lots of responses and hopefully you are feeling reassured that being tired and forgetful goes hand-inhand with cancer and treatment.
Susan
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Sandi--good luck with the chemo. Let us know how it goes.
Susan
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Stephanie,
Ugh--not the news you wanted to hear I'm sure. I'm joining in the prayers that it is nothing. Please keep us updated. Till then, I'm sitting right here and waiting with you. Want to play some cards while we wait?
Susan