jaminkw Posted March 3, 2009 Share Posted March 3, 2009 Afternoon everyone. After about three really dead days on the internet for me (I think one day my email box was empty--never happens) I came home from a shopping trip and lunch with a friend to a full box. Problem is, I don't feel like responding to any of them. Have been in a funk lately. Hope it's related to tonight and I'll work my way through it. I usually go to my cancer group on Tuesday but can't tonight. I am attending a hospice candlelight event at the Botanical Gardens. It's to remember all the people who died of cancer last year. I'll be lighting a candle for my friend Jim. I spent some time a week or so ago with his family. It was as such get togethers should be--we told stories and laughed and cried together. What makes this event tonight so difficult is the expectation that a person in Jim's life will probably be there. He was not Jim's SO although he likes to tell people he was. He lived in a separate house on the property where Jim lived. I really dislike him and feel he took advantage of Jim and drained him dry physically, financially and emotionally. Jim was such a good person. He could never say no. Thanks for giving me a forum to get this off my chest before I go. In Jim's memory, I don't want to get into anything with this man. Jim hated confrontation and conflict. Judy in Key West Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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