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I have no advice or comment.
I only want to tell you I am so sorry that you are hurting and we pray that you find peace in this.
Pat and Bri
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You guys are awesome and hysterical!
If it is the last thing we do we intend to host a movie night .............
I love everyone of you.
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We have no information to offer, but are very much praying that things go well for you.
Pat and Brian
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You guys,
I want to raise some things with you..........please read and share your feelings or reactions.
I am leaving room for the possibility that I am in the throws of denial or that I am emotional to the point of irrationality........but I still want to ask this and I have come to feel safely enough in this group to take this risk.
Is it possible that Brian was mis - diagnosed?
Points:
He is/was not sickly
He was working 10 hour shifts at night
He had no pain
The naggy cough he had was attributed to Monopril - a med he was on for 4 years.
He had / has not lost any weight.
He had 2 instances of breathing "funny" in the last 6 months, but both times were after exertion and lifting and he describes them as more like he was "out of his breathing rythm" than experiencing shortness of breath.
He was able and still can walk for 20 uninterrupted minutes on the treadmill at 3 miles per hour.
Last fall we took many "laps" around the walking path with no sign of fatigue from Bri.
PCP and ONC both said that Brian's "presentation" did not match the lung x-ray, CT Scan, PET SCAN.
Onc said that he was "PUZZLED"; that the best diagnosis he could come up w/ was poorly differentiated LC. He said that the "stains" they did on the biopsied matter were inconsistent in many ways with the microscopic findings. He said that the tumor had some characteristics of sclc but that only showed on the staining that was done.
He repeated that he was puzzled.
Brian and I could see the Liver tumor on the CT Scan and on the PET Scan. It seemed at least as large as the Lung tumor (lung tumor is in upper left lung.........inoperable due to size (5cm) and proximity to arteries, heart and "nerves that control breathing"), but the liver was never biopsied.
ONC told us not to have Brian work
Onc told us to begin paper work for SS disability
Onc did not discuss stage or prognosis
Onc said Cisplatin and VP16 for 2 rounds/Scan and either continue or change chemo drugs
Brian tolerated chemo well.
After he got Protonix for heart burn and Lasix for bloating he came right around and ate well and only felt fatigued and lost his hair as symptoms of the chemo.
I repeat: Brian is NOT SICKLY
Brian states that he does not have the sense that he is really really sick.
Is a biopsy difinitive??? If the biopsy says LC does that mean LC?
They got a really good amount of matter in the ct assisted needle aspiration biopsy..............Onc left no room to think that he was unsure of LUNG CANCER --- Just what kind.
Brian really likes the ONC because he did not show any sign of treating Bri as "hopeless" He seemed very eager to get going and "go after" the cancer. Brian loves the cancer center (OSF ST ANTHONY center for Cancer Care in Rockford IL.) and the fact that it is a short drive from our home. He connected with the ONC right away.
I just can not believe that he has cancer.
........Thank you for taking the time to read this. I look forward to your input.
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Fay,
No need to apologize..................I am new to all this and appreciate any input or advice.
Thanks for caring.
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Thank you for the words of support.
This whole thing is awful enough without feeling like I did something to sabatage our efforts.
We will get through this...........the learning curve is rather steep.
Thank you for being here.
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Please know that we care and have your family in our prayers.
Pat and Brian
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I love your good mood!!
It is contagious.
Movie night.........our house.........
Popcorn w/ lots of butter
Pat and Brian
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YIKES
..................I had no idea............................I am going to pray that God will make up for my stupidity w/ grace and take care of Bri.
I am stunned.
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May she rest in peace.
Cherish your wonderful memories.
Please accept our sympathy.
Brian and Pat
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Ohhhh........
we get it now.............
When they say you lose your hair...........
YOU LOSE YOUR HAIR
Brian thought he was being pro active by visiting his barber
when the clumps started coming out. He got a "marine do".
HOWEVER
All the little hairs still kept coming out...........and now they
were "bristly" and "itchy" and all over his clothes, his pillow,
his ball cap..........his chair..........
(he told me I should have opted for a poodle...........)
We ended up putting a dining room chair in front of the TV and,
while Bri watched his driver, Dale Jarrett, get caught speeding on pit
road during the Nascar Race, I shaved his head.
We managed to laugh and Bri quoted all the loving messages that
were left for us when we first posted about his hair.
It feels so good to have people "GET YOU" and understand your
feelings.
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
Pat and Brian (who looks really just fine with NO HAIR.......) Bless his heart and Bless all of yours'............
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Oh that sounds wonderful.................
You can count on Brian and me to behave while you are gone.
One million is about the number of books I would love to read.
Enjoy, relax and know we will miss you
Pat and Brian
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Beth,
We are still thinking about you and praying for an angel for you........
Know we care.
Pat and Brian
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A high tide floats all boats..............
We are enjoying your wonderful news.
Pat and Brian
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Many happy returns of this special day!
Uploading some ice cream!
Pat and Brian
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Wow,
wonderful...........a birthday and a cruise!!
Have a great time and rejoice!
Love
Brian and Pat
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Sub lingual means under the tongue...right?
Thanks.
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Bruce,
Those of us who are new are grateful you took the time to post and renew our hope.
Thank you.
Please continue to share support. We need each of you!!!!!!!
Brian and Pat
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Brian and I are in total agreement on our list:
1) LCSC
2) The understanding & Compassion shown us
3) Folks being able to describe exactly what Brian is feeling
4) The clear and constant understanding that we are not alone
5) LCSC
Thank you for being here.
Brian asked me to mention that I do the typing on line as he only has one hand.............
He is laughing and saying he is about as handy as a one armed paper hanger.........................
We are feeling positive today and ready to begin next round of chemo on WED.
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It is 8 PM........................it has been a crappy day...........
But
Just when we did not think we could come up w/ our contribution for the day: here are our 5 for 3-19
1) Cindi gets how Brian feels about losing his hair
2) Cindi took the time to tell us that
3) Cindi felt it, survived it and has hair today
4) Brian has renewed hope and determination
5) LCSC................our Grace for the Moment.
Good night, and thank you for being here.
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What does BAC stand for, please?
Thanks.
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We add our wishes for a wonderful weekend.
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Welp,
We knew it could happen and that it probably would.
Brian's hair started to come out in big clumps yesterday. He went to his barber and got what was left taken off. His scalp is sore and he is really self conscious.
He had the most beautiful gray/white hair.
He had been gray since he was about 24 years old.
I told him that I have heard that when the hair grows back it will be even thicker and maybe curly.
I think this is so hard because it is a visible sign of what we are still trying to accept is going on inside of his body.
Brian said: "I guess this is the real deal."
Next chemo infusion begins Wednesday and continues on Thursday and Friday.
Brian is being such a good sport and I love him so much and I am so sad.
Thank you for being here.
My turn to need a little support...
in GENERAL
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Melanie
It is plainly time for the referee to throw the flag for "piling on".
We are so so sorry for your worry and concern.
Please consider yourself hugged and cared for............and know that we are praying for your family and a respite from worry.
Love and prayers.
Pat and Brian