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I'm sure you heard those precious words, however faint. My father's last words were also , "I love you." He said them to my mom... My thoughts are with you, Cathy

That is AWESOME news!!!! Cathy

Hi Tracy, Are you Kasey's niece? We have been sending lots of good thoughts your way through her. I'm so very sorry that you have to deal with this, but am glad you found this group. Cathy

I'm so sorry, Shannna. Cathy

Thanks for that lovely poem. It makes me cry, as I'm missing my dad so much today. Cathy

I'm so sorry, Lisa. I don't think we can ever prepare for this. My thoughts are with you and your dad. Cathy

(((Carleen and Keith))))))

I'm glad. Hope is such a huge part of this journey, I believe. It helped my dad and me for a long time. Don't give up! Cathy

(((Carleen)))) I just want you to know that you are always in my thoughts. From the time I joined this group after my dad was diagnosed I was amazed at your strength and hope. That hope helped me throughout my dad's illness. I know that there is nothing I can do or say to help you, but just know that you make a difference to all of us here and you and Keith deserve something good. I'm so very sorry about your baby and Keith's health. Please, let me know if there is anything I can ever do for you... love, Cathy

You know, I think you are a good teacher because you are able to express your emotions. I'm sorry about the cat. Take care, Cathy

I know how you feel, Eppie. I have been doing stupid things and feeling out of it since my dad died too. Just wanted you to know that I'm here as well. Cathy

I'm so very sorry to hear this news. I will keep she and her children in my prayers. It is not fair... Cathy

Oh Eppie..that was a beautiful tribute to your father. love you, Cathy

Oh Eppie! I'm so sorry about the loss of your wonderful dad. I just saw this today and am so shocked and saddened. Please accept my warm thoughts and prayers during this time. PM me if you ever feel like talking. As you know, my dear father just died a month ago. I feel so sad about this... (((Eppie)))) love, Cathy

Lisa, I'm so very sorry that you are dealing with this right now. To me, it just seems like it is really unnecessary to talk about statistics with young children. And yes, they should be careful about what they say to them regarding this. Don't they realize how that could affect a child who has a loved one dealing with this disease? I have no advice for you, just offering support in a difficult situation. I would hope that they would be more sensitive to your request. Your little girl sounds so mature, I can tell you have done such a good job about explaining your illness to her without it being scary. I wish I had more to offer here... Cathy Cathy

(((Carleen and Keith)))) Congratulations on 3 years!!! Good luck with the invitro. I'm keeping you in my prayers! Cathy

I agree. Beautifully said, Ann. Cathy

Hi Luann, I'm a nurse too, so sometimes I think that makes things even worse! I just wanted to tell you that I have learned so much from this group and please try to remember that everyone is different. Don't pay attention to the statistics. There are so many positive stories here about people living with stage IV lung cancer. Keep that hope! Cathy

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear husband and father. Cathy

Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you.. Cathy

I just wanted to say that I also support the idea of a widow/widowers grieving board here. Even though I haven't lost a spouse; my mother has, and she is having such a difficult time dealing with losing her "best buddy". I think it would be very helpful to a lot of people. Cathy

Dear Sue, My father passed 3 weeks ago tomorrow and we are still having such a hard time. I know that my mother says that the evening and bedtime is the worst for her too. I just wanted to offer you a cyberhug and to let you know that you are not alone. Please take care and know that we are always here for you. Hugs Cathy

I'm so sorry, Nancy. I do know how you feel. Just be there with him. That is enough and I'm sure it helps him more than you know. Please take care... Cathy

Hi Janice, Welcome. My dad had NSCLC, but no matter which kind...it is very scary. Anyway..I hope the scans show good news. It truly is a roller coaster ride. Good luck with nursing school! It's tough, but worth it! I'm an RN myself. Cathy

I love it! Cathy