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Thanks for the sweet reminder. Cathy

Welcome Rod, My dad also had NSCLC and was 72 at diagnosis. He never really got a second opinion and that bothers me to this day. I think his onc was pretty good, but no bedside manner and not as procative as I would have liked. That said, I hope your dad does well with treatment and just remember to stay positive with your dad. My dad was so hopeful and I really thought he would be one of the ones to beat this. As you can see from this group there are many who have survived for many years with this disease. Take care, Cathy

Welcome Susan, As many have said, there are a lot of lc survivors here that have beaten the odds. Don't give up hope! My dad also had lc and it was the scariest in the beginning. Hang in there and stay positive, okay? Cathy

Yes, Frank..you are the best!!! Cathy

What about a stamp? I don't know how that works, but they did it with breast cancer... We need to do something to get a cure!! Cathy

I'm so very sorry. I wish I had more to offer, but I am at a loss for words. love, Cathy

I also think of the both of you daily. We are here if you need us.. love, Cathy

(((Carleen and Keith)))) I'm sorry... Cathy

I HATE it when the doctors don't give you hope!!! There has to be hope, of some kind. Maybe not a cure, but something. I'm mad right with you that they made Keith so sad. All I can say is you and Keith don't deserve this and I am constantly sending you both my good vibes and prayers. I have to admit that my faith was tested with my dad and I still feel mad that he had to die. It's not FAIR. Go out and prove those doctors wrong!!!! I'm so sorry, Carleen. I feel so bad... Cathy

Your message also brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful man! I know that I cherish notes with my dad's handwriting and just stare at them when I find them... I'm so sorry. But like Pat said, happy at the same time that you had such a wonderful husband. Some people never have that kind of love. Cathy

My mom went to all the appointments and I went to most of them. Like Don said, I didn't go to scans or radiation if I was working or something, but all of the appointments that were with the doctors I felt that I really wanted to be there. I'm a nurse, and sometimes felt that it gave me a little more power with the doctors. I didn't care for his onc that much..I think he was smart enough, but didn't think he had any bedside manner and he was much better when I was there!

Yes, you are both the best!!!!! love, Cathy

He would have been 74. He was such a young, healthy man. So full of life and love. I really can't believe he is gone. I miss his hearty laugh, gentle soul and loving presence. Happy Birthday, Papa Cathy

I just wanted to add my hugs. I'm so sorry. My dad's birthday is on June 8th and my mom is having a really hard time as well. We all are, actually. love, Cathy

I'm so very sorry, Malou. Thomas was an amazing man. My thoughts are with you. Cathy

I feel itchy a lot too, but it seems like certain times of the year are worse. I think itchy skin can mean a lot of things. For some reason I think it can be kidney and or liver stuff too. Charming, huh? Don't worry though...I bet it is allergies! I know what you mean though. I have become the worst worry-wart about diseases since my dad was diagnosed! Cathy

Prayers for you both, my friend. I'm thinking about you. love, Cathy

You rock, Frank! It also made my day to read this! Cathy

Just adding me to your group of well wishers! Cathy

Wonderful news!! My mom goes by "Mimi" with my kids. When my daughter was little she couldn't say grandma and it came out as "Mimi" and stuck. I'm sorry that Dennis is not here to share this news, but I'm betting he knows... Cathy

Hi Stephanie, I agree with what you said about feeling lucky and then having so many negative things thrown at you. It is truly a shock. I know how helpless it can make you feel. Please know that we are here and care. Cathy

Just read this today and wanted to let you know that you have made a difference for me during my dad's daignosis and treatment. My thoughts are with you and your family. Cathy

Wow! Thanks, Amie!!! What a sweet surprise to find this today! I'm going to celebrate by taking a trip to NYC next weekend with my friend who is also celebrating a birthday today!!! Thanks again! Love, Cathy

Prayers for your daughter. Cathy

Hugs to you, Peggy. I know that my mom is feeling the same way, as she recently lost her "best buddy" as she called him. I wish I could say something to make both of you feel better... love, Cathy