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So, so sorry.

Erin and all..... Thank you so much for the kindness of your words. It is so good to be reminded that I'm not alone in this (too bad any of us have to be here). Any time I can be the listener, please let me know! Love to all,

So sorry for the loss of your daddy. I know what you are going through, I just lost my daddy, too. I had a lot more time to "prepare" than you did, so I can't imagine how hard and shocking this was for you (not that you are EVER prepared). And to have to go through this while your mom is going through treatment is awful. I am so very sorry for the hard times you are going through. If you ever need to talk or vent, feel free to send me a PM. Prayers to you and your family.

Deepest sympathies to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss!

Hi all! It has been almost six weeks since dad died, and I'm feeling pretty sad. I have had my beautiful boy to keep me busy and laughing, but now the stress and sadness is starting to catch up with me. I have been dreaming about dad a lot lately. I dream that he is still sick, but hasn't passed away yet. Then I realize that he did pass away already, and I get so confused. Then I wake up to face another day without my dad. I know these awful feelings of sadness are normal and something that I need to work through. My friend says I need to just have a major 'meltdown' and let it all out (that hasn't happened yet). Maybe she's right, but I have no idea how to do that (plus I have a little baby who needs mom to keep it together!) I haven't been talking about my grief with anyone because I feel like I need to keep it together and remain firmly in the 'land of the living,' not bring people down with my feelings. It feels good to be getting all of this out. Sorry for the venting session, but thanks for being there. Hugs for all,

Tina, I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Jamie, welcome, though I wish you (and all of us) didn't have to be here. I will be praying for all of you, that God grants you strength and courage. You'll need both. We're always here if you need us. Hugs,

I am so sorry about the loss of your mom. You're probably sick of hearing this, but she is in a better, happy place now. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. Prayers,

I'm sorry for the rough time, but tears are healing. Warm thoughts and prayers your way....

Thanks Maryanne! She really loves her grandbaby, he makes her very happy!

Thanks again to all of you for the warm welcome! Please, if there is anything I can do for any of you, let me know!

Hi Chris, and welcome. I'm new here as well, but my mom "KarHart" has been here for a while. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in a very good place now for healing and support! And hopefully together, we can all see an end to this monster disease, and the fulfillment of your promise to your friend. Hugs and prayers,

Welcome, Christy! I'm new here, but my mom (KarHart) has been here for a while. You've already been given great advice, so I will just say that I can relate to what you are going through. I just lost my dad a month ago to this awful disease. He beat the statistics and the odds by surviving longer than the docs thought he would. I know how hard it is to watch your dad be afraid and to know that you would take it all away and go through it yourself, if only you could. I know it's hard, I really do. But I also know that there is reason for hope, so please hang on to that. We are all here any time you need to vent. And if you want to send me a PM, feel free! Hugs, and prayers to you and your family!

Hope you have a happy birthday and a blessed Passover/Easter!

I am new here but wanted to say welcome. Dealing with this disease has to be so hard for your husband, but still he shouldn't take it out on you. Unfortunately, I think you are the one he feels safest venting his anger to. I will be praying for you and your family. Hang in there. You're not alone! Hugs,

Janine, I'm new here as well, and I was so sorry to read about your mother. It is so hard to lose a loved one. I lost my father a month ago. Give yourself permission to grieve, and to vent. Let these people on the boards help you, they are wonderful! Hugs and prayers,

Thanks all for the warm welcome! I look forward to getting to know you all!

Beautiful, sad words.

I can understand the brain goo thing! For me too, losing my dad was so hard, still is. It gets harder every day. Hang in there, know that your dad still loves you and watches over you. We'll all get through it somehow. Love and Hugs,

I finally took your advice and signed on here. I just wanted to let you know that anytime you need me, I am always here for you. I know you feel that you need to be strong for Kenny and me, but really we all just need to be there for each other. The load is lighter when we all share it together. You are so strong and so full of grace. I am proud that you are my mother. I love you, am praying for you, and will talk to you soon (tomorrow!). p.s. Ryan sends hugs and "teridactyl sounds" Love,!

Hello everyone, this is Laura, Karen and Ken's daughter. I have started my own account here, and wanted to give you all an update on my mom. Since dad passed away on 3/13/06, mom has been keeping busy. She is an amazing woman, and has been amazingly strong. She has gone back to work and is staying in close touch with me and her family in Florida. Basically, considering the circumstances, she is doing ok. I know she thinks about all of you, and I'm sure she will post again soon, when she is feeling a little stronger. Thanks to all for the concern. You are in our prayers. God's Blessings,

Dear Kim, My heart is breaking for you right now. No words can make things ok for you right now. Just know that you are not alone. Hugs and prayers,

Hi, my name is Laura. Some of you may remember that I posted a couple times for my mom (Karen) last month after dad (Ken) died. I've been following the boards here, and finally decided to create my own little identity. Thanks again for all of the support, and my heart goes out to all of you. Thank God we have this place, and each other. God Bless!