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I am so sorry to hear this sad news. He fought the battle bravely. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Angela

Carleen and Keith, Please do not give up hope. My thoughts and prayers are with you every day. Angela

Praying for your brother Rod, and your family.

Coming that-a-way!

Oh Curtis.. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I read and re-read your email and I could feel the grief you are feeling. I sat here for a long time looking at the reply box and I just didnt have any words to say that might make you feel any better. I know its so hard to be going through life everyday as we must do becuase life does go on, and then get your heart ripped out again because of the little reminders that tend to creep up on us at the most unsuspecting times. I wish that I had answers for you, but I do feel your pain. I am guessing as you have said over and over that it does get better, I guess there comes a time when you feel a little more numb, and then maybe much later there will come a time, when possibly you will be able to watch it, and think of Becky with a less amount of grief. Aside from having Katie there to remind you of the love you shared, just remember all the great, wonderful times you were able to have. It is a blessing in itself that you were able to make a life together in the short time we all have on earth. Just think that there are many, many people who have never even known love at your age. Not only have you known love, but you two created a most beautiful child and for that we continue to be blessed of the awe of His power. I just wish that there was something profound I could say to make you feel better, becuase I have no great words of wisdom, nor the expereince you have had since I didnt lose my spouse, but please, please know we are all here for you when you need us most if that helps any. I will be sure to check out Everwood next week to see what so great about it... with two kids in the house - cartoons occupy most of the TV time until 8:30 every night. Angela

Just curious becuase she was supposed to be back on Sept 5th. I hope all went well.... Angela

Ellen, I have to agree with Donna. It looks as though someone pulled all this stuff you already know (Hello!!) and pasted it into a form letter.. I bet Lieberman didnt even set eyes on your letter. Maybe you should write another and demand a responsive letter and not a form letter. I realize these people are busy, however if they arent there for the common people, then what are they there for? Just my thoughts..... Angela

Joanie: As you said ***There are very few people in the world who will truly stick by you when you're down. They are the ones who count - and, if anything in the whole picture of life, something as trivial as this should be treated as a laughing matter. *** This is something that only those who are touched personally by something such as cancer can relate to. Remember, your boss is living in the rushed, everyday life, that I am sure she doesnt stop to realize how priceless it is. Whereas we - the "touched" ones have an edge as that we see the big picture - we look beyond the trivial everyday intricies that people in general get caught up in and take for granted what their life has given them. I have truly learned to prioritize what is important to me. Yes, a job is just a job, it pays the bills and provides food and shelter. And yes its very obvious who your friends are when tragedy strikes. And my view is that if anything from this, I have learned to not toake for granted who is really in charge - and its not us. His power is greater than I could ever imagine. Chin up, you got it girl, and keep that nasty ole boss of your on her toes - I bet she wont bother you too much about it from now on. Take care!

Oh Roanna, I am so sorry that you and Wayne are having this set back. My prayers are heading your way, sending you strength and healing thoughts. Angela

I am so sorry Andrea. Please know that I am prayeing for your friend...

Mary - Good to have you here on the board, please know that we all miss David very much. Good news with the puppy, a puppy will keep you all very busy. Take care of yourself and those boys. Much love and prayers for you, Angela

I lOVE this! Maybe I should try this one night - as like the lady in this story, both dog and man snore.....

HUNTER, RICHARD B. (Age 62) Of Lawrenceville GA, formerly of Lorton, VA, passed away Monday, May 24, 2004. Retired in 2001, Mr. Hunter was formerly partner/owner of Special Products Transfer Inc. of Lorton, VA. Mr. Hunter was a loving husband, father, grandfather and friend. He is survived by wife, Dorothy (Dotti) Hunter; children, Robert and Kyra, Charlotte, NC, Steven and Rachelle Hunter of Richmond, VA, Brett Hunter, Woodbridge, VA, and Angela and Thomas Blount, Woodbridge, VA; grandchildren, Lauren Hunter, Ryan Hunter, Danielle Hunter, Alyson Blount and Jillian Blount; and a host of wonderful friends. Memorial Services will be held at Woodbridge Elks Lodge, Minnieville Rd. Woodbridge VA on Sunday, June 6, 2004 at 2 p.m. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in memory of Richard Hunter to The ARC of Greater Prince William, 13505 Hillendale Dr., Woodbridge, VA 22193 or St. Joseph's Mercy Foundation, 5673 Peachtree Dunwoody Rd., Suite 650, Atlanta, GA 30342.

Elaine - Prayers coming >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Well Curtis - You already know my thoughts on this. I am so happy that Katie is doing great and being a kid again. Be so thankful that she is able to talk to you about her mom and they way she is dealing with things, thats seems to be pretty healthy way of it. I know my situation is not the same because my daughters' lost their PaPa, it was hard for them as well especially since my oldest had such a strong bond with him, but finally she too is starting to adjust, although she still will not talk about him with me. Please take my good wishes for you and whatever your future may hold with Alisa.

Sharyn, I am so sorry for this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you, you dad and the rest of the family.

You know, I am not even sure if this applies, but on the day that Tom and I got married, my uncle Johnny made a speech that I really did'nt quite understand until I was personally effected by this disease. He went on and on about "this is a good day to die"., now knowing what I know and as you put it Its amazing the new sense of being we have now. Just the fact that you identified "I fail most everyday at making the day as precious as it should be." means that you are doing the best that you can. If you didnt acknowlege these sensitivities then maybe...but you chug on in life - Becky is there with you each and every day - just look at Katie and you will see her clear as the sun is bright. Take care of yourself Curtis, and kiss that cutie patooty!

Yep, been there done that - Tears me up every time, and I keep torturing myself becuase I love contry music. Here is another one that tears me up... Big and Rich (Yep - country) Live This Life Met a man on the street last night Said his name was Jesus Met a man on the street last night Thought he was crazy till I watched him heal a blind man Watched him heal a blind man now I see I live this life until this life won't let me live here anymore Then I will walk yes I will walk With patience through that open door I have no fears, angels follow me wherever I may go I live this life until this life won't let me live here anymore Met a girl in a chair with wheels But no one else would see her Met a girl in a chair with wheels Everyone was so afraid To even look down on her And she just spread her little wings and flew away yeah I live this life until this life won't let me live here anymore Then I will walk yes I will walk With patience through that open door I have no fears, angels follow me wherever I may go I live this life until this life won't let me live here anymore Met a kid on a bridge last night Contemplating freedom Met a kid on a bridge last night And he said I'm tired of this maddening life And I'm ready to go meet Jesus And I said he's a friend of mine Met him just last night And it's alright Yeah it's all right Yeah I live this life until this life won't let me live here anymore Then I will walk yes I will walk With patience through that open door I have no fears, angels follow me wherever I may go I live this life until this life won't let me live here anymore Live here anymore Met a man on the street last night Said his name was Jesus Met a man on the street last night

Curtis. (My two cents here) I think that whatever you decide is going to be best for you and Katie. I dont think that you have to come to this board and justify your personal life to anyone. Only you know whats going on 100% in your life right now. I am thinking that unless someone is there with you every step of the way and can see whats in your heart (No one but you and God can see that) that you should not have to justify anything you do to anyone. Your life is your own, and frankly I think its great that you are able to accept another human being into your life so soon after Becky's passing. That shows that you have made yourself vulnerable because you are opening up and letting yourself care. Just because you have chosen to reach out with someone who touches your interests and having things in common - and possibly pulls a heartstring, doesnt mean you have "Moved on" - you are living your life, for your sake, for Katie's, and lets not forget for Becky's sake. So, you do what you feel is right in your heart and take care of you and take care of the little one. God Bless. Angela

Hi all... just wanted to share a tid bit from this weekend.javascript:emoticon(':)') Well I guess I have to provide some history of the events that have taken place. After my dad passed, my mom was telling me all the questions that she was having, "Is he ok, is he out of pain, does he remember me, does he know how much I love him, is he here?'" etc. and so after that conversation, I just happened to be at Target later that afternoon with one of my close gal-pals and saw this book, " AFTER LIFE Answers from the Other Side" I thought that was some sort of a sign that I HAD to get this book, and so I began to read it.... it was finished in two days, and for those of you who believe in this stuff, It helped me tremendously - so I sent it off to my mom with the hopes that she would at least get some answers that were plaguing her so much in the hopes that she would get some peace. Well, It did. She called me Friday and told me that John Edwards just listed that he was coming to Atlanta on November 7th - well - she bought tickets... So whether or not some people believe its all personal, I BELIEVE and even if my dad or my other loved ones dont come through personally to us, I will consider it a great experience to attend and see how he touches peoples lives. I am avidly looking forward to this. Anyways - I just wanted to share. Angela

Absolutely beautiful. Angela

Well shoot me down.... I need to practice my breathing

Ok, I *Think* I did it right, 1st time - I got an 80, second and third time I got a 95... and I am healthy - for the most part I think.javascript:emoticon(':lol:') javascript:emoticon(':lol:')

Pam, I am so sorry for your loss. The fog will clear eventually. Just hang in there and know you have my prayers.javascript:emoticon(':cry:') javascript:emoticon(':cry:') Angela

Ginny - I am so sorry - please accept my deepest sympathy for your and your family. Peace be with you. Angela